if only i could kill him

Hi rhane, I wonder why he is like that...what's your parents reaction about his attitude and the way he treated all his siblings...I understand how you feel and it's not really easy..I wish you will be able to express to him how he hurt your feelings and maybe soon he will realize it and he will change!

Okay this is something you probably really don't want to hear. Your big brother is your big brother, teasing, butting in, pestering and acting like an a*s is part of his job description! As far as him being spoiled you may see it that way but if he is the oldest (especially the oldest son) he may feel pressure from you parents that you don't realize or he may just don't want you to make mistakes that he has made (ex. not being able to do what you want in life because of poor grades).As long as you both live under the same roof he IS going to be a BIG brother, after you both get out on your own and start seeing each other as "real people" instead of just big brother and little sister, the way you view each other will change (i know you don't believe this but take my word for it, i speak from experience). As far as wishing it was legal to kill him, i hope nothing happens to him while you feel this way because the guilt would probably drive you crazy! You would not have anything to feel guilty about (unless you DID kill him, LOL) because most younger siblings feel this way about their older siblings sooner or later but you would still feel it,because that is human nature. When you get older and have children as they get older you will find yourself telling them things that your brother did when you were growing up and most of the time it will be about something that he did that made you want to kill him but by then you will see it in a different light and you will probably be laughing about it. In the meantime just try to ignore him as best as you can or tell him to mind his own business, if he doesn't make you mad and get the response that he wants (which is to get you mad) he will probably just ignore you most of the time. Just remember he IS being a BIG brother as aggravating and as obnoxious as that is, it is his role in your life at this time! Keep telling yourself "this to shall pass" and have a great day.