Perfectionist because of low self esteem??

United States
June 27, 2008 12:40pm CST
I'm a perfectionist. I have to have everything just right. I just thought I was an over achiever but I was at church and the pastor gave a message about perfectionism. And how he thinks the root of it may be low self esteem? I can't say that I agree with him and he doesn't say that's what the root is it's just his opinion. Any thoughts?
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@piasabird (1737)
• United States
27 Jun 08
I can see where he'd get that opinion. However I don't think I've read any studies about that. I try not to be a perfectionist. It just makes me unhappy because I can't attain perfection. So my theory is why try? lol