Go to bed angry.....

@sutan74 (1113)
June 29, 2008 2:44am CST
Never go to bed angry. If you don't deal through every conflict right away, it'll lead to resentment and ultimately blowups. Do you agree with this?? This is very interesting...For me, I don’t like going to sleep angry at anyone- friends, husband, family, etc. I feel so awful, I can’t sleep and just want to talk it out! But I have read somewhere that Sleeping on it helps. Conflicts are best dealt with when you have calmed down and are well rested. When people are overwhelmed by emotions like anger, Often, nothing gets resolved — the persons involved just get more and more furious.
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@chiyosan (30076)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
no i dont go to bed angry and yes, i believe that if there are misunderstanding, it should be settled before you went to sleep.
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@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
29 Jun 08
I found like my dad to walk away for awhile like I used to go hiking in the moutains all day when I got back home I was calm again
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• India
29 Jun 08
Hi friend, i am not an angry person. Even if i got angry, i never shows it. When i went to sleep, i lay for a long time, thinking about what all things happened in my life that day. If i have any disagreement with anybody i ring them and ask if needed
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@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
29 Jun 08
Most times I can not go to bed angry because I just can not fall asleep or if I do I do not have a good night's sleep. If I fight with my fiance then I always try to make up with him soon after because it is never good to stay angry because it can lead to resentment. I don't think that sleeping on it helps everyone, but I'm sure it helps a few people. I know myself that I could never let my fiance be upset because of my stupidity. Have a Great day.
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@shelly43 (1197)
• Australia
7 Aug 08
my mum has alway told me never go to sleep angry with my hubby, now some times it is a bit hard when he has made me angry, but i do always remember mums words so i give him a kiss on his back while he is asleep and i know i can sleep in peace.. hugssssss
• Canada
23 Jul 08
I NEED to resolve things before I go to sleep, whereas my husband is the kind of man who eeds to sleep on it. We drive eachother nuts sometimes. When something is unresolved I CAN'T SLEEP!!! I'm stuck with it. I once took a double dose of sleeping pills after we had a fight (not a dangerous dose just an extra ONE) because I knew the conlict would keep me awake, AND I WAS AWAKE ALL EFFING NIGHT!!! Those stupid pills should have knocked me out cold for the nex 18 hours, ut OH NO, I was up all effing night.