Chilhood Crush Becomes a Reality?

Philippines
June 30, 2008 12:01am CST
you have a childhood crush but the situation seems to be difficult that time, many hindrance stated about the past. admiration turns off and on with so many reason then as he reach his 17 yrs of age he choose to live in state, and after hearing those news its a failing times. then lifes continue after this. and you choose to had a relationship with someone but still thinking about him after 5 years of relationshipto another person but it didnt work. times to move on, no relationship for 4 yrs then but times comes technology invented ICQ and Mirc,your still looking that you how you could find him but how and thanks after 2 yrs friendster invented your glad and its a great help that could find someonein this network places in meeting old friends online,but no search found in 3 yrs relative come then heard news that he is married then become sad. i said Omy, then ofcoursce i have to move on and forget him then after 4 yrs decided to get married 1 day bofore your wedding day one freinds come then tell that theres is one man who want to date you and who loves so much even you were younger,you become surprise and shock when this friend mention the name and answers what? you answered i knew he is married already ? this friends said he is divorce already? after the wedding you had a chance to talk with him and talk everything! what will you do after 17 years till he return to remember you even he told that i havent forget you even a single day of my life and that i dont have chance before because i thought you dont like me? what will you do if you had a chance to talk with him? in this situation you still like the got and there is afeeling of regret but you decid eto get married because because your reaching to be an old made and your ages is really your getting old thats why you get married ? When you are waiting and you rlooking for him for so many years, you couldn/t find him or he is not coming? But when your fading to wait anymore then she ccomes? if this happened to you what will you do?
3 responses
@subha12 (18453)
• India
30 Jun 08
its a tricky situation. there are so many things happening that you have mentioned. so take your time. when you had no contact with him for years, one day before marriage why to contact him?i think its better to be with current partner if the love is true.
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
tnx for giving some effort to this problem tnx for the advice
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
Hey, first let me say love really is mysterious. IF you really love that person you will never get tired of waiting and looking for him. I know that it is really hard to wait and look for someone you don't know if you were specia to him but if really believe in the miracle of love then you won't engage into marriage just because you are aging. That one day before your wedding was a sign already that you must think before saying your vows but still did say it. That only means that you should remain and stay faithful to your spouse. Forget everything what he said and if you still do want him then file a divorce and go with him. But if you don't have the courage to do that stop asking what ifs cause it will only make your marriage not work. BEtter to concentrate on your marriage.
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
hey thanks for your reply, you got it, it is really the right solution to the problem ,you enlighten the situation. thank you
@ksha777 (95)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
I think it can be true to some but not to all. In my case It never happened to me and I'm glad that I don't have that kind of feeling of hoping and waiting for that childhood love for a very long time. It's hard to wait and hope for the things that you don't even know if it will be a reality in the future or a dream come true. It's not wrong to hope and wait for that love to come... it's the feelings and the love of that person will keep him/her to hold on for that dream. I had a dream but not a childhood dream...id that's the case it's kinda long dreaming for me. laugh at loud. For me, keep on hoping never lose hope but we have to consider a lot of factors before we continue on hoping...like is it relevant? Can you see the possibility that both of you will be together someday.. of it is more than 10 years or something maybe it's not relevant.. you have to looke for another, it's too long and you don;t need to lock yourself to that dream. I know hoping is like believing in God's helping hand to grant your dreams but we need to use our mind and start to think of other possibilities because I believe that not all of our prayers will be granted.. and if God didn't answer our prayer, don't be sad for I know he has other plan for you. Maybe childhood dream is not really meant for you.. you have to accept that and move on for the better. You don't know maybe there's a lot more interesting guy waiting ahead of you.