is jealous a part of love

@thefyxer (505)
United States
November 3, 2006 11:00am CST
is jealous a part of love or is love jealous,if you love someone is it ok to be jealous even a little,or does that mean you are just insecure
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@brown2654 (452)
• Pakistan
3 Nov 06
ho if jealous is a part of love then wats love do u think hmmm??/ thnx
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
love is a close relative of jealousy,maybe a first cousin,here are some other family members---hate--lust--anger--hurt--pain
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• India
3 Nov 06
i think yes
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
it is in there somewhere
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@micheller (1365)
• United States
3 Nov 06
it's okay to be little jealous but not alot.
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
a little is good not too much--a little mean that you are human
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• India
3 Nov 06
love = possessiveness = jealousy = insecrity..... looks very simple....but a hell lot complicated.... it is a part of love....but how u overcome it... is what determines how long u ll b in love....
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• India
3 Nov 06
yup ur right...the main reason it begins is when u start expectin more from ur partner....even thou they r the same....u feel they v changed....
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
i think when we in love sometimes its like we walking in the cloudsthe fairy tail thing-jealousy is the human part of love it bring us back to earth.
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
4 Nov 06
thats true
@anushri (961)
• India
3 Nov 06
yes it is a part of love
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
it is definately
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@Bitchn (646)
• Romania
3 Nov 06
i think love means that you have trust in each other ! how can jealousy appear if you have trust in youre lover ?
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
after love-you must have trust-but we are only human nothing is 100% perfect
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@lavkul (472)
• India
4 Nov 06
May be not sure.
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
4 Nov 06
think about it some more
@w1ssam (488)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
3 Nov 06
I am very jealous ....
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
4 Nov 06
that mean you are human
• India
4 Nov 06
i feel it is not good to register to make make love,marriege relations online..it is like foolosh
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
4 Nov 06
ok i hear you
• United States
3 Nov 06
Jealousy is a part of life, it is not a part of love. There is always going to be jealousy in realtionships but I don't think that it is necessary. I think that the person you are with is choosing to be with you. You have them already why would you think that they are just going to get up and leave? It is deeper than that, if you truely are in love then there is no reason for jealousy at all. My husband and I have a jealous-free relationship!
@thefyxer (505)
• United States
4 Nov 06
so if i'm at a club rubbing up on you and your husband walk in he he would not ask you who i am?
• India
3 Nov 06
no never
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
not even a little bit?
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@Brandi06 (2227)
• United States
4 Nov 06
yes
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
4 Nov 06
you are human
• Mexico
3 Nov 06
I say it is ok to be jealous but only a bit because if it is a big jealousy it equals to insecurity...Love does have jealousy in it, its imperfections are what makes it perfect but if the jealousy overcomes more than 10% of the LOVE part then its insecurity and its not good!
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
i feel the same way my friend
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• India
3 Nov 06
no not at all jealous can never be a part of love. love is all about give and take!! if a person is goina be jealous about his/her partner for sure he is not truely in love that guy/gal!!!!
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
ok so you see your girl at the club huging and feeling on this guy that you don't know how that make you feel,not a little bit jealous?
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@anldzm (505)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I THINK THAT IT IS,BC WE AS HUMANS DEFEND N PROTECT WHAT IS OURS....BEING 2 JEALOUS IS ANOTHER MATTER...BEING REALLY JEALOUS NEEDS TO B ADDRESSED AS TO WHY FEELINGS N WHY THE INSECURITIES.:),,,:(
@thefyxer (505)
• United States
4 Nov 06
i feel that way
@kesfylstra (1868)
• United States
3 Nov 06
If you mean being jealous of your spouse's relationship with another person, I think a little bit is okay, because it shows just how much you care. But once it starts becoming about controlling your spouse, suspecting him or her, or losing trust there is a problem.
@thefyxer (505)
• United States
4 Nov 06
so true so true
@divir_vij (1591)
• India
3 Nov 06
Lovers are mostly bound to be jealous if their partner talk to someone else or the dance with someone then ur partner would definitely feel jealous
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@thefyxer (505)
• United States
4 Nov 06
i agree