how sorry and sweetness is important for u

United States
July 3, 2008 11:20pm CST
im on LDR right now, i admit this few months we always have some misunderstanding, maybe bcuz there is alot of things in our mine, like our on going on papers that look like get stuck. but yet we both get upset, when im upset he get upset too, rather than making me feel better. he dont even try to say sorry and even try to emails me, his bitter than being sweet. in our relationship he never bother to sent me gifts and cards. does really some men are like this, i cant imagine this character. well i dont know maybe becuz i was use with my ex to have many cards and gifts every month, now here he come so inverted to my ex the reson for me to compare him alot to my ex, but really i still want himto show some sweetness, cuz it feels good and special.
3 responses
magojordan
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
Well for starters you should stop comparing him to your ex. Also try to be more patient since you are in a long distance relationship.
iluvmyjames
@iluvmyjames (84)
• United States
7 Jul 08
thanks. i was patience enough and i hope he gave his part too.
danniejoe
@danniejoe (46)
• India
4 Jul 08
Heya there, Make ur mind clear and read this fully... I jus want to make one thing clear..."Men are from mars and women are from Venus"Aite, now am jus try'n to explain in general, how men n women react when they are upset... Understand the psychology... Men(We) wanna be "alone" if they have a problem, and they don want anybody to discuss or solve their problem, they jus wanna sort it out in their own way... He surely wudda told u this when hez upset... "Please leave me alone", am i rite?? Women(You) always wanted somebody to be near them when they are in deep trouble, itz like they wanted somebody to listen wat their problems are, and also wanted some kinda moral support to solve their problem, U wudda surely felt it if u r upset... So pls understand this, guyz are more easy go'n if u don involve much in their probs... And pls don pester him(am sorry to say) or jus don ask for a gift or card when hez not in a mood... He might not have the practice of giv'n a card to others(tats y he wudda never bothered to sent me gifts and cards)... Its a guy thing... Rather u betta take him somewhr special, whr he wud listen to u; obviously whn hez in a good mood, give him a precious gift and jus tell him tat u have given him a very special gift(stress here)... Share some sweet memories with him n if possible give him some enjoyable pleasure... Conquer him in ur own way.. Tats it, he'll give u wateva u want, U try this out, gimme ur feedback.. All the very best Regards, Dannie
iluvmyjames
@iluvmyjames (84)
• United States
7 Jul 08
i do appreciate your comment here, i guess i need to but this book, i seen that on bookstore here. anyway how could i give him all of attentions when he seem too busy with his online games? thats what i hate about him, he spend more time on internet/pc than me, that he dont even had a time to go to post office and drop me a cards, which is a very simple little grant i have. i do always send him cards and always make him feel special and love even where in LDR.
Kevin
@excellence7 (3651)
• Mauritius
7 Jul 08
Patience is a virtue dear..and everyone is special in a way. maybe your ex used to send your cards and gifts to please you..but you are living in your present and with your future by your side, so forget your ex..and try to treasure what's special in your boyfriend instead of comparing..i am sure u will love him in the way he is and hold him close to you because everyone is special in some way..by not sending gifts, this does not mean that there is no love for someone..some have immense hidden ocean of love in their heart..so just treasure this ocean of love..am sure u will be very happy and u feel eternal love and bliss by his side..best of luck dr.,