did i really betray my "friend'?

@rhane7315 (5673)
Philippines
July 4, 2008 6:14am CST
ok, i'm gonna tell you a story about that i have a friend (her name's joi). we've met in an online game called Ragnarok Online. she told me that i was her best friend there since we're the only ones who can relate to each other's interest lol then my present bf today was very close to each other and he's also courting me that time. she even teases me on my present bf that i should give a chance on that guy. i told her that that guy likes someone and not me, then she told me that she doesn't think so because he do everything that i ask for him. then when me and my present bf are officially in a relationship, i don't if she really knows about it or not or she's just playing dumb or what. then she was mad at me telling me that she's the only one who didn't know about me and my bf's relationship. i told her that i taught that she already knows it since me and my bf were calling "baby" that time. but i know for one thing that she likes my guy that's why she became mad and tells me that she doesn't on the two of us anymore. she even deleted me on her friendster account and even in her yahoo messenger (i'm sure of it). i tried to add her on my friendster account again but she declined it. then we saw each other in Ragnarok Online a week ago then instead of calling me "Les" she's calling me "Lesley" lol well that's her way of calling someones name if she don't feel that person or if she's mad at that person. i guess she's really mad at me at all huh? but one thing that always bother me is that did i really betray her? now tell me, did i really betrayed her or not? if you have some story to share, don't hesitate to share it with us and thanks in advance
3 responses
@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
4 Jul 08
Hi rhane, she is just jealous..from your story or post, I don't see any valid reason for her to hate you..She should feel that's going on between you and your bf since you have that endearment as " baby", so, it is very obvious already~!For me, do not force yourself to her, wait until she will realize what is she doing, maybe if she will find a guy for her, she will just be fine...LOL! She needs time for herself to get over!
@rhane7315 (5673)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
haha lol thanks for that nice response che. you're really right about that. but i think it would be hard for her to find a guy that would love her because she acts and talks like a tomboy most of the time
• United States
4 Jul 08
I see..then she has to do something to enhance herself, how can she expect your bf to like her when the time she thought you're not yet on!LOL!
@rhane7315 (5673)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
lol well said che well aside from her attitude, i think she also needs an overall make over lol i think i'm getting meaner
@saverio (402)
• India
6 Jul 08
just forget about it and move on.You did the right thing.She is plain jelous of you.It more or less looks like she betrayed you and not vice versa...!!!
@rhane7315 (5673)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
thanks for the enlightenment
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I don't think so. This was your boyfriend before you knew her and just because she is jealous does not mean you did anything wrong!
@rhane7315 (5673)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
thanks for that cj