Today while I was walking up the slope way i denied someone's request, why?

Nepal
July 4, 2008 7:35am CST
Today while i was walking up the slope one man asked me to help to push the cart wheel. but i neglected his request and went on my own way. what would you have done if you were me?
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lilaclady
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
4 Jul 08
I think I would have tried to help him if I could, I have helped people like this before, I think it is good to help where you can as I am a firm believer in what goes around comes around.
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sirfsuraz
@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
4 Jul 08
yeap, i should have helped him as his and mine way was same. I felt so much guilty while walking to my home. But what could i do i was so much tired at that time. I walked 25 kilometers non-stop when he was asking for help and also due to my shy nature and self humiliation thinking i neglected him. i am really sorry for that guy. The way he was asking me to help... ah tears flows from my eye.
naseeha
@naseeha (1382)
• India
4 Jul 08
It happens and its no use worrying now. It is understandable that you were very tired and were not in a position to help. So forget the incident and try to help others next time.
sirfsuraz
@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
5 Jul 08
Ok, i'll automatically forget this incident within a week. Thank you very much for your response
sherlock27
@sherlock27 (913)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I hope that you are in the same position someday and someone refuses to help you. You are very imature. It's time to stop being so self centered.
sirfsuraz
@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
5 Jul 08
yeah, what if i was there in place of him.... Extremely sorry to that guy.
sherlock27
@sherlock27 (913)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I would have at least tried to help.
gabrifvg
@gabrifvg (167)
• Italy
5 Jul 08
you should have helped him. but i guess the fact you feel so bad about not having helped, can only be a good sign. it means your nature would have made you stop. we all have moments when we're tired or stressed, or angry, and we might not pay attention to others. but what's important is how we would have acted if we had followed our nature
sirfsuraz
@sirfsuraz (468)
• Nepal
5 Jul 08
yeah you are right. I was so much stressed at that moment. And also due to my nature and behavior i neglected his request. Truly saying, I felt shy.. I would have helped him if he were my relatives....