is money really a aphrodisiac??

I do agree that some women choose men with money. But not all. Sometimes, a woman just want security. Because raising a family is no joke. It's a big responsibility. Raising a baby is expensive. Now can you blame a woman for thinking first if a guy is secured enough, financially wise to start a family? I think not. I got the impression that you are talking about a golddigger. A beautiful woman who used her beauty to catch a millionare or rich businessman. Is that what you are trying to say? I know they existed...what drove them to do that is beyond my comprehension. I, as a woman can't imagine myself having a relationship with a guy that I don't love just because of money. That's totally gross. I'd better marry a guy i love with little money. Than marry a a rich guy that I don't love.