girl friend or wife

First of all- if you have a wife and also have a girlfriend then shame on you, you dirty scumbag! Clearly, you don't love either at all. Especially if you are having trouble decifering on your own which you love more. If you love your wife you wouldn't have found it necessary to go find a new girlfriend to cheat on your wife with. And if you really love the girlfriend, then leave your wife. There are obviously different aspects of both women which you find appealing. But it sounds to me like your being a greedy, selfish pig, unaware of anyones elses feelings but your own, trying to have your cake and eat it too. Well, you know what women say to men who cheat- Hope you choke on that cake. If you really don't know the answer to your question, then it seems you wouldn't know love even if it smacked you upside your little head.

Of course my wife!I married her and spend my life with her. How mean will I be if I will choose my gf. Specially when your happy with your married life. Men are just polygamous in nature but for me I will only have my one and only wife. Have a nice day!

ewwww...pick one...u cant have both...either stay with your wife, or divorce her for your gf...but make up ur mind...i met too many people on the internet who are married and they have a lover...i refuse to divorce their spouse for the kids, but they no longer love the spouse and prefer the lover.

honestly i dont think you love either becuase if you are married and you have girl on the side that is hurtful to know so how could you love someone but hurt them?

The thing is that a wife is married, a girlfriend is not. How can one love a girlfriend more than the mother of his children? A wife is loved more than a girlfriend.

my friend, there is no comparison between wife and Girl friend. I am always love my wife. Because, girl friend is the just time pass. she never like to share your problems and never like to take any responsibility of your children. so my suggestion is never compare your love with your GF and your wife.