which do you prefer marriage or live in??

I preferred to be legally married. Live in has bo blessings from God and the kids would have problems with their legal papers. If couples decide to live in without getting married legally, the kids would suffer. It is better to be married legally. It is the couples duty to make the marriage worked for the sake of the kids. If they are not ready for everything then, avoid both. That is my opinion.

Live in before a contract purchased from the state or the church. You have to go with your heart. It is sure easier to move on than to get a divorce if things dont go as you planed or hoped. :)

I will prefer live in. It's like going for cloths shopping. You will try it on to see if it will fits you comfortably and then check out the cloths to see if there are any damages. So yeah, I mean you wouldn't spend like $30K on a marriage and then realize something is wrong with him. That's a big waste of money and time lolz.

i prefer live in first to know the person il spend the rest of my life with. i dont want to get married that soon without knowing him that much. its hard to get married then separate at the end. it sweeter if after that long wait il marry the man i wanted to be. but every woman wish to be married but sumtimes marriage is not enough to be sure that both of you will be together forever. if we really meant to each other then we will be togther till the end.

On these issue,my opinion is to live in first.In nowdays,young ones are living in an unconstraint way.Otherwise,to live in first can make you know if he or she is just suitable.

Personally I'd prefer to live with someone rather than get married. If you live with someone you're already sharing your lives. You'd know each others friends and families. Sharing the tedium of everyday life together. Essentially you'd be living as a married couple. I dont see why everyone wants to rush out to get that certificate. I understand that it might be different once you add kids to the mix as you might want that feeling of security that some people thing marriage gives

I prefer live-in.it is much better for us to know more about our partner before we decide to get married.

No, i wouldn't live in but if someone else wants to it wouldn't bother me.

i would preffer to live in together 1st.if we find each other that we are meant to be then we will plan for marriage.