Do you think...

@jess07 (319)
July 10, 2008 6:28am CST
Do you think that having a jealous boyfriend/girlfriend, is the proof that they love you or that its an obstacle in you're relationship? I have always had very jealous boyfriends and i found it was sometimes proof of they're love and other times that it meant absolutely nothing !!!And you ?
2 responses
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
10 Jul 08
Sometimes it means love sometimes it doesnt, most of the time when it becomes so bad they are obsessed with you and end up becoming very violent, as i have experienced first hand. However, it shows a sign of mistrust in my opinion, or at least doubts in faith. My current boyfriend has accused me once, but i think it was because he felt lonely at the time, like i wasnt paying enough attention to him, but it happens to the best of us doesnt it. Some jealously is just because you dont want someone else to have what is 'yours' or so you like to call, thats generally the most obsessive type. But apart from that i understand mild jealousy is normal, because you may not want to lose what you have- generally because you love it.
@jess07 (319)
10 Jul 08
Thanks for you're response!! I completely agree!
@Balozi (243)
• Kenya
10 Jul 08
Jealousy is bread in the eye. If he is jealous now, watch out. Excessive jealousy can be out right destructive. Just a little is enough. Ask yourself this question, is he leasing to buy or is he merely sampling?