is there any nees to make everyone likes you?

China
July 10, 2008 8:31am CST
not everyone thinks so. but i can't help myself thinking about others.especially what they are thinking about me. so life will become a little tired.how i can be my self all the time and think less about how others looks me.
2 responses
@coopstar (282)
• United States
10 Jul 08
Why would you let anyone eles decide who you are. Figure out what you want to be as a person and be it, regaurdless of what other people think, Your true freinds will respect that and stick with you. To many people worrie about what other people think about them, and make decison because of it.Stop letting other people rent space in youe head, you will be alot happer.
• United States
10 Jul 08
Well, I figure it isn't my busines what others think of me. It's MY business what I think of me..know what I mean? I attempt to be nice in passing to people. But if they are nasty, I walk the other way and give them NO attention. (Attention is all nasty people want, so they can get that somewhere else and not waste my time.) It's nice for me, because I live a solitary life anyway and what do I need their approval for? -Couldn't care less. In the end, the only one that you have to impress is your own self. Surround, if you happen to be social, with only positive friends, avoid nasty people and cut the negative ones totally out of your life and enjoy! I like it my way, because I am non-social. Not anti..becasue I would not harm anyone..but I just happen ot like my alone time. (Who NEEDS the nasty ones?!-Let them be jerks alone!)