Does my Girlfriend really love me?!

Have you spoken to her and confronted her about this? ^ (answer so i can continue) However if you two argue so much etc. Sometimes it's just better to leave a relationship. I was in a bad relationship once where most days lead to an argument... i fell out of love because the amount of pain i was put through because of him... so it is possible to fall out of love... it makes it easier to split... but then it makes you wish you had done it sooner so you didnt put up with all the rest of the suffering that person put you through etc.

Hi dhicks. Have you propose to her to get married? Maybe she was waiting for it for so long. 4 years is so long, arguments, fighting and misunderstanding is normal in a relationship. If you think some times she don't even hug or kiss you, it doesn't mean that she don't love you. Girl some times are very moody, this is normal because it's hormonal thing. Why you don't talk to her heart to heart and tell her what you feel. Confide your feelings and be frank. Tell her how much you love her and you want her to be with for the rest of your life.

She cares for you but i do not think she is in love with you,not like you are with her...I know because i have felt this same way before..A woman who loves you will show affection and when she is angry she is telling you her true feelings...I am sorry if this sounds rude because it is not meant too,but just by reading what you say.I can tell that she does care for you or she would not stay with you but i do not think she truly loves you deep within her heart,if she did she would be wanting to be with you all the time and you could feel that love..I think what you are feeling is a red flag and maybe you should move on...She sounds like the new has worn off and she is just comfortable in this realtionship....

The level of love cannot be counted. You can't say how much she loves you or how much you love her. She didn't be motivator, doesn't mean she did not love you. I think this is her personality. You should understand that's she after 4 years with her. If she change suddenly, I think you may be scared by her. Actually it's normal for her to choose her family more. Did you ever think that she is grew up by her parents, if she not treating her family nicely, sure she feel very bad and guilty. I'm a girl, I also have the feel to take care my family a lot cause they are the closest to me. She loves you but she has her own personality too.

she is not the only girl in the world, if you like date others and see, or you can work it out if you still can handle it love will always prevail wait does she love you? why not ask her?

It seems there is a lack of understanding between you. Also from ur views it seems ur love is more as a lust like u r saying u want to hug her, kiss er and want to sleep with her.. May be ur gal frnd is not ready to do these things before marriage.. so friend try to have a open talk and try to understand your galfriend and her feelings..

hey mate i think you should take some time apart to let her see what she will be missing

Let me tell you a story of what happened today when I was having lunch in a hotel. There was a lady who came over to where I was, and ask for my cellphone to brows since I have connected to internet, of which am using now. She wanted to check her mails now opening her mail provider (Yahoo). She found several mails which was send by her boy friend when he was over sees. On inquiring from her where is that man she told me, she told me I've cut off my communication with him I ask her why she has no answer she simply says let him suffer first. The guy has been looking for her several time. So generally ladies have no words to say, you need to be a gentleman and behave well whenever you are with her. Avoid petty issues that can lead to quaral most of the time. Buy her gift don't be mean she is observing your behaviour and character.

well u should b straight forward...so u should just arrive her n ask her....its better to know before its too late...