Go or stay?

@cottonm (753)
Malaysia
July 12, 2008 6:18am CST
If u in luv with a guy who had a gf, and u come into a situation that he & his gf & you might b going on a vacation together due to other friends not able 2 join...you really want this vacation for so long and already paid for the airticket which cannot change, what will u do?Go or Stay? if u go, how do u face it? If u stay, how do u gonna adjust your feeling?
1 response
@jonesy123 (3950)
• United States
24 Sep 08
That's a difficult one. The scrooge in my would want to go since I already paid for it and don't want to be out of the money. On the other hand I would also think I'd probably be in the way of the love birds, lol. But I think, I would still go, show off my best side without making any advances. I'd just be nice and observe how the relationship is between those two anyway. I would just try and be a good friend and have a good time. You don't want to show your true feelings because you might scare off the guy and you don't want to be the reason for the break-up anyway. But you want to maintain a friendship to stay close, just in case. But keep your eyes open, maybe somebody better comes along;)
@cottonm (753)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 08
thankz for your suggestion ^_^ actually i did go, i enjoyed myself quite well, but also some 'bittersweet' time during the trip, and luckily, my best friend was there to support me, even just two days, thank god she was there ^_^ Yeah, my eyes very open now ^_^