My heart

@yeimei (12)
China
July 12, 2008 9:52pm CST
I do eveything for my lover.but she don't care about me.What should i do.
8 responses
• Malaysia
14 Jul 08
it seem that your situation just like me, its painful went someone that you love doing that thing to you/us. for me is "we try do the best and the rest let fate decide it. Just don't stop trying... just keep doing what you do...
@yeimei (12)
• China
15 Jul 08
Thanks my friend,I know what i shuold do.Good luck to you.I have talked with her.Now I think we know more each other
• United States
14 Jul 08
a lot of women would appreciate you. it's a shame you are with her. too bad you can't find someone who treats you better.
@yeimei (12)
• China
14 Jul 08
I know what you talk about.I think I can solve this proplem.Thanks a lot.
@therd27 (31)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
why don't you stop doing everything for her? because if she cares for you she will apreciate everythings that you do. she is not worthy for your efforts and attention.. you must understand that doing everything does not mean that the person will also do everything for you.. i just hope you realize that you are just wasting your time for her..
@yeimei (12)
• China
13 Jul 08
I think you are right.I don't waste ang more time to do somethings for her.thanks
@chej18 (915)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Some people cant show some affection,or afraid to show thier feelings.mybe she is just like that.You think that she doesnt care but mybe deep inside she do.Coz i know somebody who doesnt show affection and feelings but she care a lot to her husband.She always telling me about him,he is so proud of him.And he is so happy to him but she said she cannot show appreciation to him and affection.I asked her why she said she just dont know she is mybe born like that.But she know that because of that her husband become suspecious that she doesnt care about him, that she dont love him,etc. Try to talk to her,coz talk can solve a lot of problem.Tell her how you feel about when she is doing things like that.That you doesnt care doing everything for her but you just want to know why you feel that way.Aske her is it true that she dont care about you.If she said she doesnt care..I think you have to stop now brother or else you can hurt your self emotionally more.In relationship it has to be give and take,she have to apreaciate all what you do to her,same w/ you.But if she doesnt have that..Just let it go becouse she doesnt care, and mybe she dont love you...Sorry to say brother...BUt if you said it that way..I think she really dont love you.Anyway if you choose to let go..you will still find somebody who can appreciate you more..or she will realized how much important you are to her..And in that case she can appreciate you more.Give it sometimes and space..let see what will going to happen.Coz i believe that if you lost somthing ,or someone and then you will know how important that person to you.Give her that lesson.. Have a nice day ...Enjoy life and goodluck.... Greetings from Che!
@chej18 (915)
• United States
15 Jul 08
Thanks for BR
@Janeel (19)
• United States
13 Jul 08
I think you should find someone who feels the same way about you. And don't waste anymore time in denial wishing and hoping that sh e will feel the same. I am not saying that it is not possible for her to feel the same but maybe she is not ready for committment.
@yeimei (12)
• China
13 Jul 08
You are right.I should find a people who is like me.So we can talk the same questions.That is a good idea.Thanks
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
The best thing to do is to make her realize that you are more than enough for. You need to give her space for a while. Do not call,text or anything. In that way she will feel that she is hurting you and if she talk to you personally and tell you that she feel very hurt of what you did just tell her the same. Make yourself humble and just simple say "I thought you need some space because you do not care about me anymore".Show her what she did to you. Remember "DO NOT DO TO OTHERS,IF YOU DO NOT WANT OTHERS DO IT YOU". I want to know if you think she is falling out of love to you.I want to know more.
@yeimei (12)
• China
13 Jul 08
Thanks for writing to me,I think my lover is very kind.she is very beautiful. maybe she is right,I should't think more bad things.I don't talk more about her,I must belive her.Thanks
14 Jul 08
Well I am in the same boat, how do you know she doesnt care? If she is not showing you any signs maybe you should sit with her and explain what you feel. There might be a reason behind this or she just maynot care in which case she is not worth being with. Cheers
• United States
14 Jul 08
My brother you should try to express you feelings to her in a manner that she will not be offended. If you do that then her heart will open up to you. God bless you.