How do you cope up when you have a mis understanding with your love one
By dorothy09
@dorothy09 (1520)
Philippines
July 13, 2008 4:01am CST
Have you experience you have a different points of view and you really dont understand each other for some reason with your love one?
When it comes to love ones, its my weakness..In times I have a misunderstanding with them that really burdens me..I find it hard to overcome not settling the problem
Usually, I listen to other side but the problem is when I reason out and wont listen to me that becomes a very good problem..and it worries me too much..
As a solution I just keep quite and find time to realize things and talk again..
DO you still do the same way?
5 responses
@msedge (4011)
• United States
22 Jul 08
Misunderstanding is a very common to a relationship.I would give a little space for a while like a day of ignoring things and think about the misunderstanding.Then have a room and time to talk about it and plan whats the best things to do to support each other and to keep the relationship stay intact and run smoothly.
@ltsenerpida092371 (45)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
When there is a mis-understanding between you and your love one, the best thing to solve it is to talk it out. Maybe not right away when the heated argument is brewing up but when both of you are cool enough to discuss it again. Don't let it passed unresolve. Communication between the two of you is very important to sort things out. Have a heart to heart talk and ironed out the differences. For sure after this settled out for good, your relationship will be strenghtened to a certain degree.
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
It is always good to deal with things, especially misunderstandings, with a clear and open mind. Anyone is susceptible to acting on impulse and there is tendency of making it worst by saying something not good unintentionally or abruptly. If it just happened, just let it go for a while. Have a break, go out and loosen up. There will be times when either one will be ready before the other one, give give yourselves room.
When both of you are ready, sit down and talk. Keep it steady and manage the emotions. Be honest and listen well. Understand and respect the other's points of view and he/she should to the same. Unfortunately enough, not all misunderstandings turnout the way we want to. Sometimes, one will be hard headed or sometimes both. Sometimes, there is no respect and irrational actions tend to take place. Just give more time but at least give it a chance especially if you love them. Take care!
@nilouette (632)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
I just keep my mouth shut and talk to her the following day...
