to beard or not not beard, that is my question.

beard or not - me with beard and without
@neilchua (888)
Philippines
July 13, 2008 9:39pm CST
hi everyone, just want to ask you something for me. as you can see i uploaded a photo of me with and without beard. my girlfriend likes it when i do have it. and some of my friends envy me when they see me having it because they can't grow beard like i can. guess i'm blessed. lol. anyway, whenever i visit my parents house. my mother always tells me to remove it cause it looks dirty. and one thing i hate about it is sometimes when i'm sleeping, my neck gets itchy because it's like having many spikes on your chin having to touch your neck. so which do you think look best on me? any comment will help. thanks,
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10 responses
@metschica25 (5407)
• United States
14 Jul 08
Hey You know what I think you look very nice with facial hair . I think you should keep it , or do both from time to time. It really is up to you , and I dont think it looks dirty . Some men can pull it off and you are one of them.
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@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
wow. that's the best compliment that i've heard so far. for that i'm going to give you a '+' on your respond.lol. thanks a lot metschica. happy mylotting.
@neildc (17253)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
14 Jul 08
Of course, nothing beats nice and clean face. I don't have mustache and I wish I could have it, before. But not anymore. I should keep my face clean. I don't have the matinee idol looks so I have to make it that way. KEEP SMILING = NEIL
@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
you really think so? well thanks for the tip. hmmm my girlfriend will be angry with you. lol
@neildc (17253)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
14 Jul 08
you mean, it is your girlfriend who wants you to look at that way? i guess your beard has a lot of use, lol...
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
hey neildc..what are you trying to say huh?!? LOL.When I read the comments I stopped when I read yours...hmmm...bad boy huh? a lot of use? well let me think? ***wink*** well I love it bec. my baby is so silent type of guy and it will add mystery to his character if he has it.Don't worry I actually help him shave it.You...you...you... hmp... ;p **wink***
@Humbug25 (12551)
14 Jul 08
Hi Neil, I just wanted to say that I think you look much better with your beard! Clean shaven, you look much younger so I guess it depends on what look you are going for would depend on whether you shave or no! Cheers
@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
can't i be both. to look young and look great at the same time? lol. i guess you can't have it all. thanks humbug. happy mylotting.
@amirev777 (2852)
• India
14 Jul 08
hi i alwayz wanted to keep a beard-it was a sign of manliness-in my early college days i sported a thick beard.the gurlz were surely attracted to me,reason being my thick,dense beard at an age when most of other boyz only had a few sprouts of hair(why cant it be hairs?)as i grew older,i started sporting a french beard-which was also appreciated a lot,especialy by the women folks.but now being past 30 those things are only memories-with nearly 50% of my beard turned gray,i can no longer keep a beard.my gurl just hates clean shaved ones-he prefers a stuble more to a thick beard or a beard which is just 2-3 days old!
@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
oh no. i can see about 2-3 white hairs growing just right now. hmmm maybe i'll keep the beard for a while. i might not able to grow them 2-3 years from now.lol
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
14 Jul 08
You could keep the clean shaven look as it makes you look better and you will fresh. To keep you GF happy, grow it once in a while, keep it for sometime and then shave it off.
@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
thanks for the advice. happy mylotting alokn99. have a good day.:)
@pinks17 (2192)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
Hmmm...hey baby soliciting for suggestions huh?...well people I allow my baby to shave it...as in clean shaven.But for me it's very manly and macho if you have a beard...just don't make it longer like an old cult guy.I love you bee...
@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
told you shaved is better. lol
• Australia
14 Jul 08
I think men look younger when clean shaven rather then having a beard also wonder what they are trying to cover up . lol still it's not a long shaggy beard you've got it looks trimed and cared for .
@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
i'm actually planning a long one. just like the masters of kung fu with that long white beard that you could stroke like your hair. lol
@weng_08 (282)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
I think you look better without the beard...however, since your girlfriend likes it when you have it, I guess the picture did not give justice on how the beard looks on you? Maybe you can have it from time to time, for you to achieve a different look once in a while. Have a great day!
@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
can't find a better photo. maybe you're right. i'll just shave every 5 days. i will have a different look everyday.lol sounds great. thanks.
14 Jul 08
Hello neilchua, As A woman, I prefer it without the beard, yes I think it does look dirty, I agree with your mother. I am alway telling my husband to shave, sometimes he get lazy and I told him he looks like a dirty old man and just laughs and the go and shave, no boy, go and shave thank you. Taramafireheart.
@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
lol. thanks for that. i wished i could just yanked it off whenever i visit my parents house. hey sometimes it really is tiring to shave. tell your husband that i understand him. i'm siding with him on that part. lol. have a good day Tamarafireheart.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
Hi neil. Based on the picture that you've uploaded. In my opinion, you look good with beard. But I prefer most for guys, specially my husband to be clean looking. Well, it really depends on how the beard was grown or how it will look for them. Happy postings.! HUGZ!
@neilchua (888)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
thanks for the compliment dhangski. but you also made it harder for me to decide.lol