Question about the "right one"

@jhl930 (3607)
United States
July 15, 2008 1:11pm CST
i have always heard that there is someone out there for everyone and i really think that it is true, that one day you will find someone that will be right for you, that will make you happy for the rest of your life...but i was just wondering if anyone had ever thought of this...what if you do find that right person that you know you can be happy with for the rest of your life but they are already taken by someone, what would you do in this situation...do you think that this could happen and you and that person work out...what would you do if you were in this situation...please share your thoughts on this!
4 responses
• United States
15 Jul 08
I have heard that do i and i do believe that everyone has that perfects one out there all you have to do is wait for them to come around. I have experienced this my perfect one came along on the Internet we got married 5 months later after meeting.. I love my husband and i think he is the perfect one for me.. we love the same things and the same hobbies we are so perfect for each other...
@jhl930 (3607)
• United States
15 Jul 08
i agree with you in what you are saying, i think that people will come when you least expect it, and you never really know where they are going to come from...thanks for answering!
@scaflone8 (191)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
For me it depends how your right one is defined in your mine and heart and i too have that same thinking that someday I will find him eventually. The person that would make me complete. But The situation your raised about the right one being with someone else.. is not the right one for you.. The right person should be for you and you alone and in that situation you may have been only misleading yourself into a situation wherein you were only convincing yourself and not really looking of what the right one really means
@Icyfairy (284)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
15 Jul 08
i have heard of this and i do believe that there is someone for everyone. and i think that if the person who is meant to be with you is currently with someone else all you have to do is wait. because if this person is truely your one true love then the person is meant to be with you and the relationship that he/she is in now would probably not work out and you will have your chance of being with that person.
• United States
15 Jul 08
Very good question to ponder on. I have asked that same question, and this is a question that some may not truly understand. My opinion and what I have come up with on personal experience is this. If you find a person, who in every way shape and form seems to be your perfect fit, but is involved with someone else, then that usually means that your purpose is elsewhere. He/she may leave the other person for you, but then there is a chance that they will do it again for someone else who seems to be their perfect fit. The right one, will show up, sometimes out of no-where. I finally found mine, a man that I had known for a long time prior to us dating. We only knew of each other as friends and nothing else. Then one day, it hit the both of us, we don't remember where it happened or how, but we knew. And we have been together ever since.