How do you deal with your In Laws

My in-laws aren't protective of my husband, they're abusive. Still even now. I can't stand to be around them after all the things they've done to us. I haven't seen them in almost 2 years and I would like to keep it that way. They didn't even attend our wedding.

In laws is one that you cannot change unless you change your partner lol. But if you happen to have "a tiger" in law I should say that it would be hard really. The thing is, as much as you were there for your husband or wife, your inlaws are there also, and you have to deal with it. The secret would be loving and accepting your inlaws as they are, some would love their inlaws much more than their parents. If one would establish and maintain good relationship with the inlaws life would be much better.

hi dorothy. well it may be true . so how you deal with the tigers? as the things move each is a young fellow the marries off has kids and lo you are mother in law or father in law. well the unsatisfied things of life , one has a tendency to fulfill through the sons and daughters and appear to be so possessive about the daughter in law. but then the things are so tedious to follow any laws. you must balance on the tight rope with your own strategies!!!!