Abusive relationship!

@saierchok (1294)
United States
July 16, 2008 4:48am CST
have you ever been in a relation that you call abusive? like your partner was hitting you, or abusing your freedoms? what advices do you give to those who live an abusive relationship at the moment?
3 responses
• Malaysia
16 Jul 08
Hey there, i have been in a FRIENDSHIP that was abusive. I had this abusive friend who I depended a lot but I realized that I do not want to rely on an abusive person so I decided to kick him out of my life and now I am happier and I have more control over myself now than I was before. :D
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
16 Jul 08
I am SO SORRY you had to go through that.. unfortunately we get fooled by people who pretend to be our friends but the fact is they are our enemies.. they're with us to keep us down and control us.. because they either fear us or envy us!
• Malaysia
16 Jul 08
I don't know if he feared me becoz if he did fear me than he wouldn't have abused me so much. But it's Ok i am stronger now. :D
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
16 Jul 08
he feared you having power over him, so he chose to keep you under an iron fest! that's what I meant! any way good luck with your coming relations! I hope they get better..
@subha12 (18441)
• India
16 Jul 08
i had never been to any relationship. if it happens like thsi its not at all good. its aklways good to come out of these.its never reparablle.
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
16 Jul 08
well I truely wonder how come you have never been to any relationship, I'd like to ask you how old you are any certain reason for your anti relations policy?
@kowtow (80)
• India
16 Jul 08
Life is to live happily.. Dont waste ur time by doing like this. Leave it ok..
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
16 Jul 08
doing what?? I'm not an abusive person! that's a hypothesis! I just assumed that for us to find out the reaction of those who are being abused!