Have you ever had strong feelings for someone but don't know how to tell them ?

@Toksic (11)
United States
July 18, 2008 5:34pm CST
I've had strong feelings for this girl for about 5 months now. But I don't know how to tell her this. I'm not afraid of her answer, i'm more afriad if she knew how I felt we might grow apart as friends. Can someone help ?
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@buldwgz (1483)
• United States
19 Jul 08
You know, Toksic, you ask an excellent question. When I was younger I was terrified to even talk to some girls, much less open my heart and tell them how I felt. Now, however, I don't care at all, and would tell anyone anything at all. Why not, what is the worst that could happen? If you are truly friends, well, she will remain so. Whether you tell her any of your feelings though is your call. You have to become comfortable with yourself and your feelings. As we grow older, we all seem to become more open with others, at least I do.
@alkurishy (2069)
• Iraq
18 Jul 08
Hi toksic, you remind me about myself when I was young in college, I love girl and she was one of my friends and can't tell her because I was afraid from her refusing and I will lost her as a friend too. But I found a solution when I send another girl friend (she was our friend to me and the one I love) for her and told her secretly that I love her and want her with me for ever, the answer was so good and she was love me too, I was knowing that but not sure so we still in a relation for 3 years, but there was no luck to get married for some reason, so I married another lovely and sweet woman after 5 years. I hope that will help you.