Deceptions

Philippines
July 18, 2008 8:05pm CST
..Most people say, don't look on the appearance but look on the inside because appearnaces are sometimes deceptive.. However, first impression still stays.. How could we look on the inside of a person when we've only met them once?
6 responses
@wren01 (10)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
yep that's right..its hard to know the person in your first met. Though it doesn't in physical appearance, first things first is that you have to get to know the person cuz you wouldn't really know the true attitude of a person just in a first met..^^
@wren01 (10)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
i mean it doesn't matter in physical appearance..hehe
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
6 Mar 12
I agree with the first sentence that you say, my friend. Because in my experience that looks outside the appearance was wrong because I in love with the wrong person who ruin my life. I though she is a good person at first because she accept the love that I propose to her. But after a year she suddenly change and everything for her is money. Nothing important for her but money which really sad to that woman whom I love the most was a love for material things and she didn't love because of me but because of money... In your second sentence is also correct because it catch my attention due to that impression...
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
10 Apr 11
Although I propose that after each assessment wrong not to repeat mistakes, at least to wait a bit until I make an opinion based on facts, he continues to fall sometimes in the same race in May. Ambitious people, but honest intrigue me and make me think it's arrogant. People are very optimistic and open them suspect hiding behind a mask of false hypocritical availability. Some people direct, and say that without hiding the view, I consider incompatible with me and willing to dominate me. After time passes and people have the patience to know in case I did not realize just what defects noticed at first, but even some qualities, they really being honest and open in nature and eager to communicate with me. Naturally relationships with others - friendship, love - are being built, and I, as time passes, they begin to know those people and ideas come from just about them. But I never managed to go and tell them, the same people, how wrong I initially evaluated the embarrassment and guilt. I want to find the answer not "perfect feedback" about people because I do not think anyone can do it "at first sight", but more patience in knowing others, a wider availability. I want to learn I can not wait to meet others, not led by impressions let me and especially those from the beginning. I say this because though the majority do so. And we are unjust, giving them the attractive, beautiful, but can also "shallow" and making large loans and those less uninterested you can astound the chapters have a lot of dedication.
@Citychic (4078)
• United States
17 May 09
deception. that's a good example. I always try to do both. While taking in the first impression I usually try to talk to them to see what they got going inside. Usually if they are a fool then you will see that too and you will be wise to run for the hills!
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
That's true. Meeting a person for the first will only give impressions at that moment. You won't really know them until you spend more time with them and at that time, you'll meet who they really are. There will be inhibitions for most people when they meet someone new. They try to get as many impressions as they can but it will always be unconfirmed. I just shrug it off an continue my way. I try not to weigh them on first impressions. I spend time with them and know them and so are they to me. I just wait for it to come out naturally. Eventually it will and I'll know slowly but surely.
@dogsnme (1238)
• United States
19 Jul 08
That's very hard to do. You normally have to get to know them over a period of time to really see what they are like on the inside.