Why girl are always jealous when boy talk with others girls???

India
July 19, 2008 5:17am CST
Hi guys & girls, Can anybody give me logical answer why the girls are jealous when boy talk with others girls or work with other girl in office. I had good relationship with my Girl and she is now my finance and whenever I have to go outside for my office work with any girl, she is always jealous. I didn't understand the nature of the girls. may myLot can help me to find the correct answer.
4 responses
@shana123 (2095)
• India
19 Jul 08
Hi hiteshrup , your girl friend seems to be my exact photo copy... you know what even i thought of starting such a discussion in the oppsoite way you have started now .You know something even i fight with my boy friend when he do go and speak to his girl friends actually my boy friend is too far away from me and we are maintaining distant relationship ( he is in U.S), i truly feel insecured because once he did flirt with some girls and everytime even when he speaks normal i do feel that he will be back to the old form..At times i know im doing too much and my boy friend gets angry to the peak and finally he is too sweet he comes and says that HE will only marry me and he will see no other girl than me those words make me feel comfortable.im just 20 years so he is like whenever i make mistakes he gets angry when i overdo and finally says your too small to understand and forgives me for my mistakes.Whenever i fight he calls me up asks my problem and when i have explained it he do listen me.So my advice is find out why your girl friend is feeling insecured does she have a bitter past ( i have one of my best friend has left me :( she was my sweet friend but now we got broke up ) so just find out the dark and sort it out if you need any kinda help i would help you out
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• India
20 Jul 08
Hi, shanan, I doubt, you are not my GF :D lol. She is carbon copy of you. Actually, we both also so far,( not like you ppl). she is in ahmedabad, and I am in Bangalore. We had talk on phone daliy (9hours/day). but in the calls, we just fighting, I am always have question after calls, "am I pay phone bill just for figthing or for love talk?" any way I think distance make problem for us? what do you think?
@shana123 (2095)
• India
13 Aug 08
Hi hiteshurp.. come on.. it all happens.. get married soon and dont leave her alone even for a minute enjoy your life... dont get discouraged.. we girls are always like this.. we will be sweet after marriage.. lol.. thanks for the best response.. !!!
• India
21 Jul 08
my dear friend just think y u always see time how much u talk first, after that thing k y u call her??and also tell me is she that much boring so u have to watch time of call??
• India
19 Jul 08
Well, not all girls are extremely jealous, i would say the opposite though. First of all, talk to her, and tell her how you feel, tell her that you love her and wouldnt fail her trust. As trust is an important factor in a relationship, ask her to maintain that. Apart from that, call her up from your work, and remind her that you love her, make her feel special, spend as much time as you can with her after office hours. And you could also surprise her at times......hope this works.
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@shana123 (2095)
• India
19 Jul 08
how sweet even my boy friend bought me a chain from glass museum ,NY .actually he went to NY with a girl and one guy which i dint like so i was very angry on him.. tried to avoid him .he went there and bought a neckless for me i said i will not accept any gifts from him.. you know something you girl is possessive on you. dont hide anything from her ( even if your hiding do it properly ) my boy friend never lies me but hides things from me say thinsg which makes me angry when i find it out i'll scold him like anything... and this will make me to doubt on him more and plants hatredness so just make a good move try taking her outside just give her misscalls or messages which will make her feel that your only remembering her still ....
• India
19 Jul 08
First of all Thanks for responding me, I tried all things. still no progress, when I gifted one sliver chain, she didn;t like it, she think, i wasted money. I really can't understand girl's mind. Sorry, i knw you are the girl and that's why I start the discussion. Hope I will get help from my Lot users.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
19 Jul 08
LOL! It is quite common practice and a natural tendency, I am afraid you cannot escape it. Actually, it is a matter of mutual trust and belief between two individuals. If you finance feels jealous, it reveals that she feels insecure in herself. You should make her understand that she should have full trust on you and you won't betray her, under any cicumstances.
• India
19 Jul 08
but how can I give her surety about our relations.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Jul 08
By your action and good deeds and you need to maintain consistency in that. best of luck!
• India
21 Jul 08
yup thats true you have to give surity abt ur relation to her and also some time this happen boys dnt like if girl work with boys in office or talk with boys may be u ask y she cant understnd u then tell me u also allow her to talk with her friends?? if u work with gorls talk with them in office than what abt ur finance is she working woman?? and if yes than u give her all freedom and u support her ??
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@adthacker (196)
• India
21 Jul 08
hi friend u dnt have right to blame to ur finance hw u said she feel jealous ? and if she feel than there is some reason behaind their can u please tell me u never feel jealous when she talk with her male friends? and also tell me when she work in office with boys and talk with them u never restrict her? u allow her to do what she feel? nope boys just think abt them self they never try to understnd girls feeling she never feel jealous it can be possible she feel bad bez some thng happen wrong with her ???