Nail in the Fence

@magnel (2263)
India
November 4, 2006 2:03am CST
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper,he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger,The number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy Now, pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father That all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger,they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there." A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one . Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us."Show your friends! how much you care.
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5 responses
@wildpvcgal (1085)
20 Nov 06
Thats a good one. xx
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@magnel (2263)
• India
20 Nov 06
thanks...
@magnel (2263)
• India
20 Nov 06
thanks...
@lipp258 (29)
• China
20 Nov 06
Good story.I always lost my temper,and hurt my friends,but from now I will Control temper and tell them this story.
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@magnel (2263)
• India
20 Nov 06
thanks... feels good that my discussion would be of some help to you...
@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
20 Nov 06
Thank you for sharing that meaningful story. It is so true how our words can destroy or lift up someone......so easily and quickly.
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• United States
20 Nov 06
I think I've heard this somewhere before, but still! That is incredible! I am going to spread the message around, because I know at least one person who needs to understand that even when you apologize for something you've done, you can't expect everything to be the same as if you never hurt someone...
@lipp258 (29)
• China
20 Nov 06
Your eyes is so cool.
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@magnel (2263)
• India
20 Nov 06
thank you so much... i ever thought if someone would look into my eyes... I think you are the first one... thanks again...