What would you do if you see you ex-bf with someone else???

@Anne19 (300)
Philippines
July 22, 2008 4:42am CST
If I see my ex-bf with someone else, I would just ignore them. I'll pretend that I don't know him and he's just another man. But if I am still in love with that guy, I think I'll still do the same but I'll just walk a little faster towards the comfort room... Because he might see my tears and I couldn't afford to have a broken heart and a devastated pride all at the same time... I would really feel so bad to see him with someone else if I am not yet over him. So whenever I just broke up with somebody, I always avoid going to those places which he goes, so as to avoid bumping into him. How about you, have you had any experience like that? wWat did you do when you see your ex with someone else and they are very sweet together? ouch... :(
4 responses
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
ill just ignore him, besides its over.. thats why we call them 'ex' coz its over lol but to tell you honestly when i saw the picture of my ex with her new gf, i feel a bit jealous, there's still 'something' about it. but now, i know that i already moved on coz im happy for him, i dont feel any jealous, envious or something.. coz im happy with my life now too.. ^_^
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
lol typo error what i mean is when i saw the picture of my ex with his new gf lol
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
I have a picture of my ex with his new gf.. at first I'm hurt but now I don't know.. there might be a tiny weird feeling but I just felt so distant with him.
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
If it was right after the breakup, I'd almost be catatonic. I'd try as much as possible not to run into him, I'd pretend I didn't see him at all. If time has already passed and the woulds have already healed, maybe I would greet the happy couple with a smile and congratulate them.
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
We are on the same ground with that. I think it's better to avoid bumping into each other when everything is still fresh and you still haven't forgotten him. But if the time comes that you no longer felt anything for him, then it will be very easy to say "I'm happy that you found a new love"... ouch! (lol!!)
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
for me what i would do is he greets me with a smile, then i would say hello back with a smile to. besides im in a relationship status now and i have no feelings with my ex boyfriend already and the next step i would do is introduce my present boyfriend to him. i guess that would be a nice gesture to do right? there are times that my ex and i are both online and drops me a message we always ask how are relationships with our significant others are as of the moment and we end up having a nice talk and also share blessings to our own relationships with our partners. isn't that great that we still ended up good friends even though we don't meet personally?
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
I am friends with my other ex-bf, because i don't feel anything towards them anymore. But if I still have some tiny winy feelings to a guy, I'm better off not being friends with him, or I'll end falling all over again.
@KUSHANK55 (2437)
• India
22 Jul 08
hello . nothing can be done for sure. for you also he is an ex. so better avoid him. and try to forget him too. for whatever reason you departed your ways both of you have equal rights to spend your life peacefully the way you like it. have the best out of it !!
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
Yeah.. fortunately I was way over him..