Move out or live with parents??

China
July 23, 2008 5:19am CST
Nowadays, more and more couples especially young couples choose to move out to enjoy the couple-world instead of living with their parents? Though, they give their parents enough money to live a good life but they never know that what their parents want is be accompanied never be paid.so if you get married, what will you choose??
1 response
@jammyt (2824)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
I have been married for almost 4 years. At the start of our marriage, we moved in with my husband's parents. From what I noticed, though they treated me nicely, we were just confined in our room. I could not decorate or move things outside because it isn't mine. 2 years later we were able to move in our own house within the same compound, 15 feet away. Though it was already our house, my mother in law kept meddling on how I run the household. She also meddled with how I decorated the house, etc. So we left. Now we live with my parents. Though these are MY set of parents, it is much more different than when I was single. We are confined in my old room. Just like what we felt when we were in my husband's place, we cannot make any movement. At the end of the day, we just stay in the room. We are looking for a place of our own now but moving out is not as easy. Money is a big factor so in the meantime, we just have to put up with everything.
• China
23 Jul 08
Yeah, you gave a good point. excuse me that I guessed that you were a chinese.actually, in china especially in those villages, it is very difficult for a wife to get well along with her husband's monther, namely, her monther-in-law.a lot of conflicts are caused by this. as a chinese, i feel very sad about this and i am also worried that whether my future wife can handle this tough problem well. Anyway, thanks for your reply and hope you will move to a your own house soon