if u can continue ur relationship wid ur boring partner...

@aengra4 (363)
India
July 24, 2008 10:44am CST
if u can continue ur relationship with a boring partner.. u know that u cant live anymore with ur partner but also u cant leave him/her due to society..as u all have a respect in soceity.. what will u do..if u will continue ur relationship or will break the relation whatever the society think abt urself.. what will u do
1 response
@klaudine (3652)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 08
if the reason is boredom, i wouldn't leave her. I mean... everybody can feel bored sometimes, but that's not the reason to leave someone. Sometimes you can feel bored if the relationship has gone for long time without any progress to anywhere. Try something new, something more challenging. If you leave someone because you are bored, someday you will do that again when you are bored with the next partner. You will always be in the same cycle of habit. But if you can break the habit, you can continue your life to the better step. It's not about the society, I think. Maybe you just blame the society because you can't leave her. In a relationship, the feeling might be gone. If it is gone, it's the reason to leave. You can say that you are just not love her anymore, and that's it. No one will blame you for that, no one can force a feeling. But still, my answer is no if you ask me if I will leave my partner because of the boring situation. talk to her/him to solve this problem.
@aengra4 (363)
• India
24 Jul 08
i am agreed to u..u have said to try something new.... what is it...
@klaudine (3652)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 08
Go to new places doing something you've never done before. You can try going to the beach together, it's a romantic place. You can surf together if you want to. Or go bungee jumping together. Hiking. Cooking. Do something that is not a routine activities. It might be boring because of lack of communication too. If you still don't know what your partner's like and what your partner's secret desire, it means that you are not that close to him/her. If you can have fun together you will know that it's not you bored with your partner... you might only bored with the steady situation. That you should find out first. If you know what is boring in the relationship, you might be able to find the solution. Talk to your partner that the relationship is getting boring. Ask him/her to do something new to make it better for you and your partner. If he/she refuse, it means that he/she doesn't have the will to fight for the relationship, so you've got your passport to leave because you've tried and she/he failed you (it's not you who failed him/her because you've tried to fix the leak)