what is your friend(s) like? mine are very mean :(
By Dragon93
@Dragon93 (97)
United Kingdom
July 24, 2008 5:25pm CST
My friends are sometimes mean to me tbh, they ignore me quite abit... don't really care how i feel Oo. I try to ignore it but it really gets to me and I hate to bottle it up inside, sometimes i get upset about it but they don't care alot of the time and one of my mates once said "lets not hang around with her if she is like this" (they whisper to each other but i only just hear it) I don't know what to do :/, I wish i had different mates sometimes. doesnt matter though, at least i have online friends i suppose, which sometimes now i feel is better as not mean to me :). although... once i get into collage I will get new mates other then them, that would be great.
So, what is your friend(s) like? and what do you think about mine? and what will you do in this situation?
5 responses
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
24 Jul 08
My friends are nice to me, that's why we are friends 
Your friends are not friends at all from the sounds of it. They seem more like people that only want you around so they have someone to pick on and be mean too. You definitely need to avoid hanging out with them. You'd be better off hanging alone. Or, you could hang out with the person in school that no one wants to be with, I bet they'd be nicer than your so called friends
Your friends are not friends at all from the sounds of it. They seem more like people that only want you around so they have someone to pick on and be mean too. You definitely need to avoid hanging out with them. You'd be better off hanging alone. Or, you could hang out with the person in school that no one wants to be with, I bet they'd be nicer than your so called friends @fwidman (11514)
• United States
24 Jul 08
I can relate to that, I was super shy in school and usually was by myself. I managed to make a few friends that also seemed shy so maybe that is what brought us together
In fact, with all the people I graduated HS with, I think I actually could say I knew maybe three of them 
In fact, with all the people I graduated HS with, I think I actually could say I knew maybe three of them 
@slyvixen42 (926)
• United States
25 Jul 08
I don't really have friends. I have a fiancee and some family but not "friends." If people are treating you like that then they aren't real friends. Hearing that people are doing that to others makes me angry. It just makes me think that they are immature for only caring about themselves. Real friends are nice to you no matter what. I can't say what I'd do in that situation. I didn't have friends in highschool.
@Dragon93 (97)
• United Kingdom
25 Jul 08
thank you for response, awww, all i have is friends online who i can talk to (In this case "type" to) someone came to that school about 1-2 years ago and she is always the mean one there, she tells me to go away all the time by shouting, sometimes i walk off or sometimes i just ignore her. I never did anything wrong to them.
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
24 Jul 08
The people I grew up with were ignorant. I got used to their behavior over time, but it still kept me mentally void of any real friendship. I kind of stayed away from them sometimes so I didn't have to be around them every day. I find people like this to be extremely annoying. I still keep in contact with one of my friends, but it's still strained.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
Thankfully I don't have friends like them.
That is awful, they was supposed to be your friend.
How could they do this to you. Stay away from them
they are not real friends to you.
@app3ls (63)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 08
That's not what friends are. You must be very sad.
Don't take them as the key of your happiness. Ignore them.
If they don't cherish you, then, don't take it so hard.
Make new friends around. I'm sure you will find someone who will treat you truly like a friend. =)
