Love unexplored
By pharmgirl10
@pharmgirl10 (2)
United States
July 24, 2008 6:06pm CST
What would you do if you were in love with someone and you knew they were in love with you but they were afraid to explore these feelings? Their fear stems from the fact that they have never felt like this before and from the fact that being involved with you poses a moral dilemna for them.
2 responses
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 08
Before I go further I should have known what stopped them from exploring the love. I don't want to have relationships with someone, but ended up sadly because the problem that was there from the beginning.
How if she/he just don't want to continue if he/she had already commited with someone? I don't want to be the 3rd person who breaks someone's relationship. How if the problem is principal? As you said that it was a moral dilemma... it would be hard to resolve.
So if I knew the problem won't finished, I would rather back off and let it go. There are still many love to catch... You don't have to put yourself in a trouble that you know will trapped you even deeper if you continue your love to them...
@pharmgirl10 (2)
• United States
25 Jul 08
What if you weren't breaking their relationship? What if it was already irreparably broken but the circumstances prevented them from leaving it? And what if you were the one who opened the can of worms by declaring your love for them first?
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
25 Jul 08
For me, personally I can't be in relationship with someone who even able to fall in love while he/she is still commited to a realationship. If it can happen to that pity woman/man, it could happen to you one day, it's a habit and a karma (if you believe in it).
The relation hasn't yet ended up, even if it has broken, but it's not you who have to end it up, it should be him/her who end it up. And if there's no sacrifice from the other party to end up it, the society just will put the blame on you, and I believe you don't want it to be happened.
Like I said before, it is your choice now. You can either step back to give the relationship some chance to fix up or just time to let them break it off with a good will, then you can continue it without being blamed for all the things happened to them. Or you can just go on and make them break up, it will be easier, but you will be blamed for everything. Or you can leave and forget about this and find someone new who's just perfect for you.
