do you easily trust other people?

@heart4u (409)
Philippines
July 25, 2008 2:56am CST
hi guys i just wanna ask if you trust easily..do you easily trust others easily? and what is trust for you? well for me i trust easily but if once break or betrayed me i will find a hard time for accepting your apology how bout you guys? and for me trust is talks about something like sensitivity to yourself and to other peoples feeling and actions how bout you guys? comment please..keep posting ad keep earning here in my lot enjoy guys thank you very much...
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
I don't easily give my trust to someone who I have just met.. It takes time and effort for them to be able to get my trust.. I believe that only those who are worthy should be given the trust because people can always hurt you anytime since you had given them your whole trust.. Sometimes, people who you trust are the one who will full you down and hurt you so much... I believe that we can trust everyone but that everyone can also hurt us.. Even the closest people you know can hurt you and can full you down even your family, friends and relatives can hurt you anytime they want.. Trust is the most difficult thing to give into someone/people because when you give trust you will accept everything that they'll do cause you believe in them..
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@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
26 Jul 08
Nope, I want to know the person first. Trust is hard to give, because once you are betrayed by those people you trust it does hurt badly. Trust is some thing you can be proud of, like keeping secrets or simply by obeying your parents will. You can earn a lot of friends, If you know how to respect them the way they trust you and vice versa. Thanks for the post, Happy myLot!
• Philippines
26 Jul 08
I am not the type who gives my trust that easily. I only trust people who I have known for a number of years and also earned my trust. Trust is not something given, it is earned. Trust can be earned when one prove themselves worthy of giving that trust. Trust is sacred that is why it must be treated like a piece of jewel. Treasure it well because when the time comes that it disappear or it is lost, then it is hard to gain it back again.
@nupats (3564)
• India
26 Jul 08
hi dear i do not trust very easily..but once i believe in someone i keep my faith..if trust is broken once then i never trust that person again..have a nice day..
@successlog (3172)
• China
26 Jul 08
hi friend,for me ,i trust all my friends in life.I always believe our friendship is strong and firm.Nothing can destroy it.And i always help my friends with my genuine heart.maybe sometimes i could not get the equal treat from them.But if this thing happen,i will never forgive him,no chance to him to correct...I think i have a high standard to make the genuine friends. Good luck
• United States
26 Jul 08
I'm a lot like you. I easily trust people. I probably trust people too easily. It's one of my major flaws. But once you betray me, I will probably never trust them again. I take trust very seriously, and once it's broken, you probably won't get it back.
• United States
26 Jul 08
I used to, but not anymore. I find it hard to trust people because of how I have been treated my whole life. I cannot even trust my own mother.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Hi heart4u! How are you doing? I do not really trust people I just met easily. I have learned a lot from my previous experiences. I am the type of person, who, just like you would find it hard to trust someone again after the trust is broken. I have been betrayed several times and I think that is one of the reasons why I do not trust people easily.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Good day.. For me i viewed trust as something I do at my own risk and responsibility, that's why i don't easily trust people. I trust people only in certain levels like in their work and efficiency but with honesty and loyalty that's a different thing for me. Don't get me wrong I do trust but once betrayed I blamed myself for not seeing that person for what he/she really is and take charge it to experience.
@snoopy88 (452)
• Australia
25 Jul 08
Well, depending on what type of trust. If it is business wise like buying/selling and anything customers related, I don't trust what the sales tell me, I will rather go research the products myself and trust my own instincts. In social wise, I only give a small amount of trust to people. I like to rely on myself. Cheers'
• United States
25 Jul 08
I trust people to easily. It is part of my nature. I am a very honost person so I guess I expect the same from others. I have been burned by people trusting them, but usually everything turns out right. I think most people are trustworthy.
@shinymood (405)
• China
25 Jul 08
i am the kind of person who tend to trust people easily as you mentioned. i'd like to think people are mostly nice and trustworthy. but there are times i fall victims doing so. i once was asked to invest money on some business projects by a stranger. he's very gentleman like and i trusted him because he said he was an army official before he joined the new trade industry. i then put almost $2000 to open an account in his company. guess what happened? i lost them all and now he disappeared without trace. he changed his phone number. i tried to reach him through the internet to no avail. This is just one case in point. And it's the biggest lesson i learn from trusting strangers too easily. I hope those who see my post avoid trodding the same road.
@jintao23 (50)
• China
26 Jul 08
I trust people easily.And my family always say I'm too young to see people through.But I think it's ok because I still believe that people are nice and kind indeed.As long as I'm kind to others,then I'll get well paid in return.
@AppiBaby (50)
• India
26 Jul 08
No i really dont "Trust" people in the first meeting. Even i believe trust is something which needs time to built upon. I trust someone who has shown the faithfulness over time and prooved their friendship/relationship with me. Once i treust a person i am ready to do anything for him/her. But once someone breaks my trust i can never forgive.