Broken Home

i would like to know you oppion- so here it goes. my father married my mom. they had me- then were divorced by the time i was 2. my father then remarries some time down the road. no one was invited. as a matter of fact no one knew until he came back from Germany with her. they are together for 10 years and he wants out. so he leaves her with two boys. and runs off to do what ever he wanted. now here is my problem- my father has remarried yet again. mind you he is in his 50's i am 27. he marries a woman who is my age after he already knocked her up. once again no one in the family knew until after the deed was done. i know that my father is an A$$. i know this but what possesses someone to marry somebody who is the same age as their first born?? not only that but he met her in China and married her in the Philipines. no one knows who this woman is. i do know this much though. my father at one point made a lot of money - and now, he is flat broke. i really cant stand it. i mean a 50 nailing a 27 year old and marrying. who does this guy think he is. mind you i nor any of my family has met her. he keeps saying that he will bring her out but she never comes. no one knows what the baby looks like or anything. i just dont get what his idea of family is. i dont expect to have him ask for permission or anything, but to inform his children what is going on. i dont want someone down the road claiming to be related to me, if i dont know them you know. what are you thoughts on this? anyone else have this kind of problem?