Broken Home

end of the world - no one knows
United States
July 26, 2008 11:54pm CST
i would like to know you oppion- so here it goes. my father married my mom. they had me- then were divorced by the time i was 2. my father then remarries some time down the road. no one was invited. as a matter of fact no one knew until he came back from Germany with her. they are together for 10 years and he wants out. so he leaves her with two boys. and runs off to do what ever he wanted. now here is my problem- my father has remarried yet again. mind you he is in his 50's i am 27. he marries a woman who is my age after he already knocked her up. once again no one in the family knew until after the deed was done. i know that my father is an A$$. i know this but what possesses someone to marry somebody who is the same age as their first born?? not only that but he met her in China and married her in the Philipines. no one knows who this woman is. i do know this much though. my father at one point made a lot of money - and now, he is flat broke. i really cant stand it. i mean a 50 nailing a 27 year old and marrying. who does this guy think he is. mind you i nor any of my family has met her. he keeps saying that he will bring her out but she never comes. no one knows what the baby looks like or anything. i just dont get what his idea of family is. i dont expect to have him ask for permission or anything, but to inform his children what is going on. i dont want someone down the road claiming to be related to me, if i dont know them you know. what are you thoughts on this? anyone else have this kind of problem?
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@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
27 Jul 08
I dunno what to say?! You keep me speechless knowing what your father did to you and continue doing at this very moment! I am sad for you but I pity him and his new wife more... do they know what they are putting themselves into?! And my friend, being his child... you have the right to know or at least have some idea what your father is doing at his very own life and your reason is precisely reasonable because it will be really funny if somebody would claim to be your half brother or sister without knowing who they really are and if they are Really your long lost half bro or sis. Did you try to talk to your dad about this? I guess he still has a clear mind to understand what you think and feel about this matter. SO there you go... I hope the two of you would be able to fix this big problem before it will further grew big and become a disaster. I am sorry if I said something offending... I am just sharing my thought on this and thanks for letting me speak my mind out. God bless you and your whole family... YOU TRULY NEEDS HIS BLESSINGS MORE THAN OUR HELP!
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
I understnad what you are feeling right now and it is really confusing sometimes... I just do hope that all will still go well and hope everything would chang according to what you desire. Just pray and don't loose hope. What ever I can do for you, I am just here my friend. Take care
@reckon21 (3477)
• Philippines
27 Jul 08
Your father marries a lot. Aren't he satisfied at all? I'm just glad you are not like him. Your father is a very private and secretive man. He doesn't like to tell anybody about his activity. There are people who are like that. Its only unfortunate that he becomes your father. I'm sorry about your situation. There are more far worst situation than you have. Cheer Up.
• United States
27 Jul 08
oh i know- but some one here posted something and here is what came up out of me. i just dont know about him. i guess the saying is true- any one can be a father but it takes a man to be a dad.