Best friend is unfaithful

@frank67 (120)
Canada
July 27, 2008 7:23pm CST
What do you do when you know your best friend is unfaithful and you know his wife pretty good. Do you let it be , talk to him or talk to her? Kind of a touchy subject. Lets here some advice.
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@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
28 Jul 08
its hard to know what to do in these circumstances as it doesn't matter what you do you can hurt people, I guess it depends on the people involved, I think I would tend to keep out of it myself as these sorts of things can come back on the person who is trying to help, you could lose both friends...I think as far as I would go is maybe talk to the person cheating, and see if you could talk some sense into them..it is hard to know what to do...
@Bethany1202 (3432)
• United States
28 Jul 08
This is quite a touchy subject. I would talk to your best friend, the one who is being unfaithful. Don't push the issue, just ask a few questions like why he's cheating and does he feel guilty. There may be some problems in the marriage or they might be almost any reason for someone to cheat. I was in a relationship where I was cheated on and it's not right, especially when they are married! Certainly you value the friendship, but ask him how he's feel if it were the other way around and his wife was cheating on him.
@magojordan (3254)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
Well as a true friend i wouldn't want my friend to get in trouble so definitely I will tell him that what's he's doing is wrong. IF you are a true friend you would really tell the truth to your friend even though it would hurt because you don't want to get him into trouble right? Also if you're true friends then he would consider right?