ex lovers as friends?

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Philippines
July 28, 2008 5:46am CST
i do have 4 ex boyfriends..and 3 of them are my friends..well maybe i guess ehat i'm trying to say is..for me, it depends on how we end up our relationship..my first bf we end it up nice and made sure that their are no hurt feelings though the seperation itself is hard..until now we're friends,as well as my 2ns and 4th ex..but my 3rd bf..we dnt actually talk to each other, maybe because we didn't end the relationship sound and clear.. so the conclusion is that for me ex lovers becoming friends depends on both parties..
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@nanciem (1105)
• United States
28 Jul 08
I agree it does depend on both parties. Right now my ex (1st sons dad) actually is my babysitter for my 2nd son (not his son)and is one of my best friends for the past 22 years. He is also very good friends with my dp. I would not have any other care for my son unless it was ex or family.
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• India
29 Jul 08
no chance!
@LordSims (140)
• United States
28 Jul 08
And depends on if you were great friends before you became lovers, because I noticed that I stay friends with some of my ex-gfs after we break up because we were friends before we hooked up.
29 Jul 08
it is possible for ex lover to be friends but after a long time. i do have 3 ex's and the 2 of them are my friends, well, not that close. my last ex is also my friend but i dont talk to him that often because he might recognized it as another thing like he might think i still have feelings for him. but i think it would be great to have them as friends coz its not good to have enemies, right?