what to do if a relation is not working?

July 28, 2008 11:47am CST
Hi there, My best friend is going through a bad time there love relation is not working what should she do can someone suggest. They both are fighting even when they dont want to.
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• United States
28 Jul 08
There are so many different factors here. How long have they been together? Do they live together? Married or just dating? Any kids? If your friend still loves her partner, and her partner still loves her, and there's no abuse or anything, then I would tell her that every relationship goes through times like this once in a while, and it usually passes. If things are really bad, suggest that your friend try couples counseling. Of course, if one of them is no longer in love with the other, it's best to end the relationship before things get really ugly.
5 Sep 08
Hello, Thanks for your reply, they went to a marriage councellor and things are working up now, There were small things as issues about meeting when the other t person was busy,talking torubles, distance etc etc... but things are really working now... thanks!
@reckon21 (3487)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
The only thing I can advice is let them have space for each other. Something like cool off, so that they can sort things out. And decide what's the best for their relationship.