Is your past relationship affecting your present?

July 31, 2008 10:42am CST
My past relationship i.e relations with my girl friend are really affecting my present because she is changing. I am getting irritated. She dropped my call for her best friend that she never did in last two years. I am frustrated. I love her , but she dont know what she is thinking. She loves me lot but we are not abe to understand each other. Please tell me a solution
3 responses
@IInsanity (290)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 08
the question now is... does she love you too? does she love you enough to change and accept? if u think she does. then you guys shud work things out. the past is the past. she needs to accept that in order to move on. you guys need a loooonng heart to heart talk. =)
@ai2dude (45)
• India
31 Jul 08
Hi dude.The problem that lies here is the lack of understanding between the both of u. I feel that even though you are her boyfriend, you should let her speak to her friends. Its not that she should alwasy speak to you whenever you call her.She would also love to speak to her friends sometime right. You need to let her live her life.also getting frustrated does not help.If you feel that your relationship is getting strained, then speak 2 her about 2 each other about the problems and try 2 resolve it. And coming 2 your past,its better you try 2 forget it ASAP as i'm sure it would affect any relationship, if not forgotten and left behind. Hope i've been of some help.
• United States
31 Jul 08
well im in a realtionship now and my past one is making it hard now cuz i trust my boo but not as much as i should......but am i wrong????HELP