Enjoy life - After marriage/Before marriage.

@abhaijith (2961)
India
August 1, 2008 2:24am CST
What you think,when can we enjoy life?before the marriage or After the marriage?I think its not possible to enjoy life after marriage?After marriage the responsibilities increases,life shares,future planings ect ect.hoo,what you think?
4 people like this
5 responses
• United States
2 Aug 08
I very much disagree. There are the same responsibilities if you're married than if you're not. You still have bills to pay and work to do either way. It's having children that brings extra responsibilities. You don't have to be married to have children and not all married people will have children.
@abhaijith (2961)
• India
7 Aug 08
You mean there will no change,in our life,on marrying?
• United States
13 Aug 08
I don't believe so, no. My life didn't change at all.
@abhaijith (2961)
• India
13 Aug 08
okey,, friend, thank you..
@nupats (3564)
• India
1 Aug 08
both those phases have their own charm i had a blast before marriage was carefree life...i still enjoy after marriage my hubby pampers me, i have a very cute son and am very happy life is indeed great and i am thankful to God
@abhaijith (2961)
• India
20 Mar 09
You mean,we can enjoy life after the marriage too. Ok good .
• India
1 Aug 08
You asked us very twisting question, because if you are single then you may thinking that after marriage I will get very good enjoyment but after marriage when you take the family responsiblity and stress then you will think before marriage I could have full freedom to enjoy my life, these 2 things are true, you will take all the tasks when the time comes, untill wait for the real life.
@abhaijith (2961)
• India
20 Mar 09
Me too thinking so. You are right......
@ruby222 (4848)
1 Aug 08
When we are single life has no burdens,when we marry we then have to take on new responsibilities and often it is all hard to cope with,but as time goes by the new role becomes easier with every day that passes,marriage is not always going to be without its difficulties,but it is a thing that you have to work hard at,and im sure with some work that you will be able to get the balance of it right.
@abhaijith (2961)
• India
20 Mar 09
Yeah,you are right...
@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
3 Aug 08
To be completely honest I must say that it does not matter whether you are married or not, to be happy and content you must find it within yourself. Through life's pressures anyone can be happy if they so wish it's just something you have to work hard to get. Expenses are no match for being poor and in love. I appreciate the discussion , dear mylotter, and hope that you are having a wonderful and lovely evening!