thinker
By icegermany
@icegermany (2524)
India
August 2, 2008 3:24am CST
i usually think a lot i dont know why, for every situation or for every matter had
what i come-a-cross i think, both negatively which is a first thought n then also positive, a second thought.
let me tell u one recent incident what happened. we recently had a trip to switzerland n we have been to mountain peaks, the cable way, n the most scaring trummelbach falls, when we reached this falls i was really scared as i have not seen this kind of falls anytime , i dont know why i really got scared of, i felt as though we are under danger n i thought allsort of things which i should not think n i didnt even let my husband to see it n i took my husband n son back.
i really dont know why i do this way n think so many things, when we were onthe cable way n trains travelling mountain peaks i was a bit scared too thinging all sort of scary things like if somethings happens on the way, i think u r understanding what i m trying to tell.
i really want to overcome these kind of thoughts n think sportively which i try a lot
if u all there read this please suggest me or some kind of ideas from which i can overcome this
2 responses
@superman007 (42)
•
3 Aug 08
Hi, yeah...this is a hard one, but I think in some situations it is really good to think of both the good and bad side of an event as you sometimes have to be prepared to look after one self if there is any danger.
Although thinking too negative can have its downsides too.
What I tend to think of in most of the things I do is, whatever will happen, will happen for a reason. I usually accept things as the happen and dont tend to be afraid of whats coming ot look back.
@icegermany (2524)
• India
3 Aug 08
u really have a good and positive attitude so keep it up n thank for reading my postn replying
@darlene06 (284)
• Philippines
3 Aug 08
thinking too much is a headache.. but there really are times where thinking of both positive and negative effects are important because they lead you in doing the right decision.. but it's so sad to say that there are also times where no matter how hard you think.. you'll realize that you weren't able to get the larger picture because you still made the wrong decision.. But what i usually do to lesson my headache would include looking at what would produce greater benefit.. and casting all my cares to God.. Since human mind is just limited, i just pray and ask God for guidance in decision making.. and accept what the outcome would be since God is in control of everything when you allow Him to.. God cares for you and surely, He won't give you anything that you can't handle because everything works for a reason.. :)
