cling to or set them free?
By chenmeiyi
@chenmeiyi (972)
China
August 3, 2008 5:35am CST
when u get older,will u cling to ur children or just set them free?
personally,i and my lover will live our own life and visit my children once a month or
once every other month or maybe less,cause we maybe in different cities,we are
seperated by distance and time.
2 people like this
3 responses
@aryajayaprakash (1643)
• Japan
3 Aug 08
If they are able to stand on their own, I will set them free, Till then we have to guide them.
2 people like this
@chenmeiyi (972)
• China
3 Aug 08
yeah,that makes sense.
set them free but still somewhat in our surveilance.
1 person likes this
@chenmeiyi (972)
• China
3 Aug 08
just keep in respectful,caring,loving distance.that's good.
happy,happy,happy.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
5 Sep 09
I don't have children, but my husband does. He always believed in letting them grow up, and allowing them to become their own individual people, the people they were meant to be. My mother clung to me more than I would have liked, having problems with certain decisions that I made, so I always thought if I were to have kids, I'd want to let them go make their own decisions as adults. I was happy to hear my husband's philosophy on children becoming adults.
