how do you comfort a broken hearted friend?

@heart4u (409)
Philippines
August 6, 2008 12:56am CST
hey guys what if you have this friend that got her or his heart broken what are you going to be to be able to comfort him or her ? well for me i will date her spend time talking to her we will go salon and spa we will pamper ourselves enjoy single life again catch up things we missed when she or he was still in the relationship thats it i will make her feel happy how bout you guys what are you going to do to comfor t a broken hearted friend? kee pp osting and kee p easrning here in mylot thank you.
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@okwusman1 (2249)
• Abuja, Nigeria
6 Aug 08
i would take him or her out to bar or restaurant and chat him or her up, meet new friends and advise to start up a new relationship immediately so as to forget the past and forge ahead.
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@vanila (492)
• Israel
6 Aug 08
I just wanted to say that what you wrote moved me. I believe there is nothing that can mend a realy broken heart if it's true love, besides being with the one you love. so in this condition I would try to help her or him to unite again with the true one for them. and if it's not a true love than that's a waste of time to be broken over something that isn't going to last any way and time, new lover or a company of friends can heal this fast.
@sk66rc (4265)
• United States
6 Aug 08
One of good friend of mine was going through a divorce sometime ago & I really didn't have to do much... He & I went to a bar few times & just hung out... Of course it wasn't to meet someone or get drunk... I just sat with him & talked about whatever came to his mind... I just let him know that I was there to listen to him & be there & let him take work on his depression on his own rate...
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@subha12 (18473)
• India
6 Aug 08
it is the situation i once faced. i had a friend. he suddenly broke up with his GF. he was sad. i tried to comfort him by saying that it is not always the case that the relationship will prevail forever. may be she was not suitable for him. he deserve someone better
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• United States
6 Aug 08
I would really try and get her to see all the positive thhings about hersel and the bad things about the person she broke up with. Life is much easier without a partner if you like yourself. There are a lot of fish in the oceon (not sure how to spell). I would definatley spend more time with her or him?.