Question

@apples99 (6564)
United States
August 7, 2008 12:36am CST
hi myloters if you had to choose between marrying for love or money witch would you choose?
1 response
• United States
7 Aug 08
Hi, I would chose to marry for love. I am not one to be with someone because of what they have. That is just being shallow to me and i am not that way. Now do not get me wrong, money can make ya happy too..lol..but it won't always be there when you need it as in companionship, love, etc. Plus, people who marry for money hardly ever communicate with each other because there is no love there. They eventually cheat on each other and the marriage usually doesn't last long. So for me, i would rather marry for love and build the financial part together. It is more fun that way..more rewarding in life. Well that is my opinion anyhow..lol
@apples99 (6564)
• United States
7 Aug 08
yes, i agree i would marry for love i think its wrong to marry for money, but i would at least want my guy to have some basic things like a car it doesn't have to be new and a place of his own and be able to do things like take me to dinner sometimes he doesn't have to be rich but i dont think i want someone whos totally broke ether what do you think, lol.
• United States
7 Aug 08
it doesn't really bother me if he can take me out to dinner or not. To me, as long as we are spending that time together, then that is all that matters to me. He could always cook me dinner or I for him for that matter. Yea, i agree on the car part. He would need a car and a job. And a place of course..lol..But as for the spending money on me in some way..nah, he doesn't have too. Now if he wanted to get me a flower or something, i wouldn't turn it down. It is nice to be shown some kind of a nice gesture every once in a while.
@apples99 (6564)
• United States
8 Aug 08
oh, i understand, but would you marry someone who was totally broke and lived with his mom and had no car what if after you got married you had a child together how would you support your self and the child if you marry someone who had nothing i wouldn't necessarily marry a man for money but, i would prefer he had a little something becuse we cant support ourselves and our family on love alone, i think marriage would be less stressful if we didn't have to worry about our finacal situateion, what do you think.