what is a good relationship?

Philippines
August 8, 2008 8:17am CST
what is a good relationship? how to maintain one? does it have to be always fine and good? how about those times of hardships and when the other one is weak? how will you react or adjust to it? will you be there when someone is causing you much pain? will you be there when someone wronged you? well, it is hard questions but when you have positive answers to the above questions, having a good relationship is very possible..
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@dloveli (4369)
• United States
10 Aug 08
A good relationship is a one where both parties feel as if there is no one else on earth except each other. A healthy relationship has up and downs that are worked through with communication and done as a couple. If you have a good relationship, you dont cheat or disrespect one another in any way. You are able to talk things out and confide in each other without hurting each other. A good relationship is one where you cherish the time your together and think of it when you're apart. A good relationship is a healthy relationship, where you're not only lovers, you're friends. I am happy to say that I am in a good relationship. I wish everyone a good relationship. dl
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• Philippines
10 Aug 08
well and good to you my friend.. hmm, i wonder who you are with right now that you can say that you are in a good relationship.. i salute and proud of you.. keep maintaining your relationship my friend. it is one of a kind. no one else has thay type.. hmmm.. i do want to be in your state right now.. hehe... please always communicate with me...
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@dloveli (4369)
• United States
10 Aug 08
Thanks for the nice response. I am fortunat but we have alot of bad times too. We know how to communicate with each other before it becomes a major crisis. This is the first relationship in my life where I have felt like this. I feel sad saying this but it's true. I have been thru alot and have learned a lot. I made sure that the mistakes made in the past dont happen again. I think we are so good together because we were friends first. Thanks dl.
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• Philippines
12 Aug 08
thanks friend.. it all start in friendship. well it is really good to be starting from being a friend right?.. and hopefully, when things wont go right, hoping that it would end as friends also... please to meet you!
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
A relationship could be considered as good if there is mutual respect and trust in each other. When each party learned to accept his/her partner unconditionally despite of her weaknesses ,failures and shortcomings. One must accept his partner for who he is, inspite of his/her negative features in order to enjoy a good relationship. For circumstamces will not always be favorable, hard times will come to test the strength of your love.
• Philippines
9 Aug 08
you are correctly right there my friend!! there must be those things you stated above. and also let us include the holy guidance from up ABOVE. for HE knows everything well. hmm, i have hard time choosing who is the best response..your all good!
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@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
8 Aug 08
I think their is no such thing as a perfect relationship. It's just that problems are always their,I think it's how both you two handle it. When you don't ask anything in return. I think also it's how you accept each other, even the mistake and the pain you embrace it. Even one is hurting your still their to listan,to appease and to understand more. I think their should be love,respect,and trust to work it out and faith for each other. Good night!
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• Philippines
9 Aug 08
you are certainly right there my friend!! both of what you have said is right and good. but let us also include God in every relationship that we are to be into. God will direct us into how to really handle our relationship right... thanks!
@zeny_zion (1284)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
ive been in a bad relationship. hahaha but i think good relationship is the one that has open communication, love, respect and trust. of course you hae to be loyal and honest to your partner. cheating is bad to a good relatinship. if you really want to maintain good relationship be understanding and patient.
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• Philippines
12 Aug 08
but amidst those bad relationship we learn something from those. the lessons learned is something that we could gain from every bad relationship we had.. hope that those bad relationships has given you lessons for life...