Is it over?

Philippines
August 10, 2008 1:12pm CST
Before I went into this relationship with the guy I am with for over 2 years now, I was into this guy who was a childhood friend, I must admit I fell inlove with this guy but he never loved me back.. I am just confused if I am really over him because everytime I see things related to him I still feel the urge to contact him and all.. I am really confused if it is still the same feeling or I just want to know why he is trying to avoid me and showing him that "well I am good even without you".. SIgh.. its hard..
5 responses
@subha12 (18453)
• India
11 Aug 08
look it is not very easy to make any comment about this, its really an sensitive issue. but you must try to think whether that guy still loves you or not. if not, there is no value in easting time after him. its better to move on.
@Gesusdid (1681)
• United States
11 Aug 08
it seems to me that if you call him , youll build up his ego even more , bad alreay he cant admit that he loves you , so if you call him back telling him you miss him and all that playing your swan song , you'll look like a lost puppy coming back to his master , dont do it , give it some time and dont go out with anyone , cause if you do you might start doing the comparsion with your ex versus the new guy in your life and thats very anyoing ...you'l get over him im sure
@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
i used to be in that situation. your just too afraid to admit that you still have a feeling for that guy because as what you have said he never loved you back. maybe it's your pride who's holding you back to accept that you still love him despite what happen with that guy.
• India
10 Aug 08
i can undstnd hw bad u feel but it happns at times...u cant expct evrythn2 happn as u wish...it evven happnd2me...i loved a grl very much but she dint pay any attntion2me..but life has2go on..so be happy cheer up my lady
• United States
10 Aug 08
I wouldn't say that is over just yet, he may be still not ready to prove that he loves you, I wouldn't rush it. Though you have been together for over 2 yrs now, so he may be trying to figure out how to tell you he loves you. But I wouldn't just say its over yet.