If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to...

@sharie16 (2213)
Philippines
August 11, 2008 7:17am CST
another person but without dating or doing anything about it? just a plain admiration, is it really wrong? how would you view this?
4 responses
@gemini_rose (16194)
11 Aug 08
Just think of it as window shopping, you are looking but not buying! There is nothing wrong in finding other people attractive, as long as you do not go beyond that then there is no harm at all. I look at other attractive men, but would never do anything to take the attraction further, my hubby looks too, it is fine.
@riyasam (16582)
• India
11 Aug 08
window shopping is a good idea.what if we have means to buy the item on display??????????????
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
lol..what an idea...
@rocker21 (2717)
• India
11 Aug 08
Just put yourself in the opposite situation and find that if your guy, being in a serious relationship with you! Goes attracted to some other girl Would you think it is right? This according to me is a SIN, if you are attracted think you dont love your Love. Finally you loose their trust also!
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
hmmm you did give me a question also top find out...i guess if it's just a plain attraction then there's nothing wrong as long as he doesn't exceed to that... i appreciate your opinion..your partner is lucky with you i guess...thanks for posting!
@fwangaa (3058)
• China
11 Aug 08
i must study hard to find my girlfriend who in american.and i will tell her that i am the best,i must learn english,i want to help you about you question.i think that is right,if you trouch with he,you will find maybe he not plain admiration again. and it is wrong when you trouch with he,you will nervous and don't know what to say but so happy you are,and he will not attract you again. i have many this case to proof. i love china.
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
ok..thanks for sharing!
@rbailey83 (1401)
• Canada
11 Aug 08
nothing wrong with it, it is human nature, the only time there is something wrong is when you take it further
@sharie16 (2213)
• Philippines
11 Aug 08
yes...you're right...thanks for the post!