Why do men hit woman?or why do woman hit man?

Yes my friend,it is not just men who hit women,but there are stories we heard and seen where women are also not behind the abuse.I used to have a neighbour,now they have shifted to another town.The lady of the house used to treat her husband very badly,abuse him.They always fight and she also used to physically assault him too,but poor guy though he shouts back at her,but he never even slap her even for once and my friend I agree with you when you say "bringing up by parents".Some kids grew up seeing parents fighting and hitting each other,using abusive languages etc and later when he/she grows up in some cases,they also starts doing the same.Difference in opinion is always there in every relationship, after all we are two different individuals.No two mind thinks the same way.

Thanks foe sharing, and above all accepting them... If every person , starts thinking your way, believe me this WORLD can be changed into HEAVEN.. Tolerance and acceptance ... , if these two things you keep in mind, all differences can be sort out.

There can be plenty of excuses and reasons.Jealousy can be one of them.Some people are sick,they are habituated to physical and mental abuse.Some like to play a dominant role,hence,physical abuse.

I wonder why some people like to dominate physically and psychologically.There are much better ways to handle problems.I can't imagine hitting someone.