Time Does Fly

@lisa0351 (303)
United States
August 12, 2008 3:34am CST
Seems will just fly by, and before you know it life goes on. I have been having a lot of difficulty lately, because my husband and I are in a spot in our relationship where we are ready to settle down for good. We have buckled down on finances and don't go out as much. We would really like to have a baby, but with our jobs and busy schedule we never see eachother. Plus money wise, we don't have what it takes. We have been working to make it work so we can move on, and we are both so ready, but it just can't happen. With work, we can't, we don't even have time for us. I feel sad and so does he, and it is kind of putting a strain on our relationship as of late. I keep telling myself its best until we get past this time in our lives. Its been six months and nothings changed, I don't know what to do. We can't afford to work less, and time isn't in our favor. Help!
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
12 Aug 08
yes it is so. sometimes time just goes on. may be its not always possible to change the life within a stipulated time period.but we should not stop trying for it.if w etry hard, it will give result ultimately.
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
12 Aug 08
yes,my job only give me a little money .so little money can't eat one meal at the restraunt,i hate this poor job.but now i must in it,because i have no skill to have a better job. i want to study java,but java is so difficult i don't known one of the page from the java books. i want to study math,also difficulty.how i do for my future? i must study java because it is the only way i can find a better job.
@sksingh (1411)
• Germany
12 Aug 08
you are right. it does
• Philippines
12 Aug 08
Indeed time is running very fast, but there is nothing to worry about because you still have each other. Rushing into things will only get things worse. Maybe it is not yet the best time for your plans to materialize because it is still the time for trials, testing both of you,if both of you got what it takes to have that kind of life as aspired. Sometimes expecting that things would turn out to be like this, and that, is frustrating, if you know in the end you would not have the results you wanted. If expecting to much does not yield result why not expect the unexpected, a reverse psychology, maybe just maybe it might help. If we continue on looking at our failures and dissapointments maybe time will really pass by very quickly without us knowing that it passed by with the reall beauty that we have failed to look at.