what If this happens to u??
By DavidNag
@DavidNag (80)
India
August 12, 2008 11:10am CST
when u r in love with he/she and at a point of time u decide to propose her and u do it too....but she says no to u,may be she is not interested in love with any1 or scared abt her family decisions...wat will u do??? jus forget it and lead ur life or keep thinking and waste timing going behind or u will take it as a challenge and win her in life by going ahead of his/her in everything and make ur love live by living and not taking any stupid decisions of suicide??? among these varied options wat u feel???? respond guys n gurls,answer truly no making fun,think if it had happened to u n respond....
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4 responses
@metalhalo (599)
• United States
12 Aug 08
If I was a male and I did propose to a woman and she turned me down...I think my first reaction would be to ask why. I would talk to her and find out how she truely felt about me. If she doesn't feel the same about the guy then he should simply move on. Some relationships work out and some don't. I wouldn't waste much time trying to get her to change her mind. If she doesn't feel the same way, then chances are she probably never will. Communication works best. Talk to her and find out where her heart truely lies.
@DavidNag (80)
• India
12 Aug 08
hmmmm u r rite someways...actually if we get a red signal frm ppl we love we get vexed first...may be they hav got a valid reason or not we feel why dont u accept me...but as u say we cant come out of it as such...its life not jus words to say...this is the thing which happens practical...if u r said no then we keep tryin for some period of time because our mind doesnt have the power to bear that no to love...then as days pass by we come out of it...but first love and true love comes along our whole life...some or the other thing reminds abt them...but these problems are not for the ppl who love someone each week....but a love failure is far better than someone said ok and aftr few days they go off sayin all that was for fun....so anythin to happen will happen and everything happening to everyone is for their own good....wat u say???
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
18 Aug 08
If that happens to me maybe I will ask her why and listen if I really do love her I will understand and be patience with her. Not because she answer me not yet it doesn't mean she doesn't love me. Their is always a proper time and proper place. As long as I love her and she loves me I'll still go on with the relationship.Or I'll think what lacks me for her to say no. Now if I can't wait well I'll tell her also my reasons. It's not the end of the world. I still have a life to face even with out her. Life is a journey! Or maybe she wasn't meant for me. Their is still someone their better then her that is deserving of my love. It's always in life IN TIME. Have a nice day!
@dreemsofdark (714)
• United States
12 Aug 08
This is how I feel.
You should let her go, and just let things happen as they may. When love is true love, the first characteristic is PATIENCE. Then comes kindness. And the last characteristics of love which I think are VERY important is that true love always hopes and always perseveres.
I think that this is very important for you to know, because if you remain patient, and kind to her, and you keep up your hope and persevere with her, what needs to happen with her in order for her to be ready to be with you will happen, and maybe it's not even her that isn't ready for marriage, maybe it's you and she knows that you need more time.
Whatever it is, look up 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 in the bible, it is the definition of love, and no matter what religion or belief system you have, i believe that this is an amazing definition that anyone can hold onto and find wisdom in.
@jaghead1179 (199)
• Philippines
13 Aug 08
i'll probably feel sad about it but maybe he/she has his/her own reasons why she/he said NO to my proposal, maybe there's a lot of things first he/she has to settle first before accepting my proposal because getting married is not a joke it takes a lot of responsibilities to handle and you should be financially stable and emotionally stable. So just take it as a challenge at the right time you'll win her.
