if asked to choose,will it be the one you love or the one who loves you?

@maimay (20)
Philippines
August 14, 2008 12:16am CST
in a relationship,will u prefer a person who adores you,know would be more honest with you and likely do anything to please you,but you are uncertain about how u feel for the person or someone whom you heart craves and you know u love them will all you heart,but the intesity of his/her love is not the same as yours?
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@glay22 (512)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
I'd choose the person who loves me. Because it is not that hard to teach and learn to love someone who gives out the best for you. This may sound pathetic but I wouldn't waste my time running after someone who doesn't care about me. Everyone deserves the best. The love and acceptance that each needs in order to be happy
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• Philippines
14 Aug 08
i agree, because i know that this person will be hundred percent mine and i know that he/she wont cheat on me. than to love the person that doesnt love me the same way that i love him/her. its too hard to expect to that type of relationship that you're the only one who's putting so much effort but he/she doesnt give it in return. its simply means that it take two to tango.
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@maimay (20)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
in my opinon that's why some relationships are getting abusive ,is that some expresses too much love for the other..but on the other hand we must not also mistaken love for gratitude,for the other.
@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
14 Aug 08
hi maimay! been into different stories of relationship before and i would say i would love to experience now being loved by someone.,it is really really hard if your into situation that you only love a person but he/she can't give you same intensity of love.,right? and i want to have someone who will love me as who and what i am.,i just hope i could find one., Ü wish me luck sis! thanks! have a nice dya ahead!!! see you around!!! myliezl0903 manila, philippines
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
i prefer the one who loves me, because we all know that if a person loves you in a matter of time you will learn to love that person also,and what if i choose the person that loves me,will that person love me also?hmmm..i dont think soooo..
@maimay (20)
• Philippines
18 Aug 08
i agree....