I do? or I won't??

Philippines
August 15, 2008 2:55am CST
Hey mylotters! HOw can you really be sure that your bf/gf right now is the one meant for you? Coz u know Im not getting any younger already. I have a bf now who's been my bf for 3 yrs already. I wanted to marry him but Im afraid I havent seen much the real side of him. Im just so scared of marriage but I wanted to get married though.Im so confused.
3 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
Marriage is a life time still their is no guarantee. Age is just in the mind as long as you love each other and understand each other I think that's enough. As long as your both their accepting each other, even your faults and mistakes even pains and hurts you can embrace it. Then getting married and after how many years you forget your vows and that is just letting it go that is the hardest part. knowing your partner it doesn't stop like also loving. Marriage is if it's really for you it will come in the bible it say's IN TIME.
15 Aug 08
He can be the one you want him to be if both of you learn to tolerate each other and see the best in each other. You never know what it's like until you actually make that first move. So be brave and good luck!:)
• Singapore
15 Aug 08
You're saying that you haven't seen much the real side of your boyfriend despite being together for 3 yrs? I believe all these while the times you had spent with him, it's him already. You need not to be afraid and be skeptical of marriage. Question yourself, if you really loves and want him to be by your side. The more you worries, the more complicated things start to get.