is a cheater always a cheater?

August 16, 2008 12:41pm CST
wat is ur opinion bout this statement that "a cheater is always a cheater"..and that history will always repeat itself?..
6 responses
@Anne19 (300)
• Philippines
16 Aug 08
If you've been cheated by someone you love very much, that statement may seem like a little too harsh. Mainly, because when we are in love we tend to be so stupid. I love to agree with that statement because a lot of people told me the same thing. But I just can't personally... I will always forgive someone I love no matter what he does to me. Maybe that is the reason why I avoid being with a cheater, so as to avoid looking stupid at the end.
• Pakistan
16 Aug 08
well i think a cheater alwayz remains a cheater...because i becomes a habbit of a cheater...and ultamitely habbit turns into nature of tht person...i've seen ppl my self who can't just help it... wel history also repeats itself...just think about it...some things infact many things in your life repeat it self...many incedents come into your life repeatdly
@sk66rc (4262)
• United States
20 Aug 08
I do believe that statement to be true in most cases... There's an old story about a frog & a scorpion that goes something like this - After a big flood, frog & a scorpion came across their path & deiced to keep each other company by traveling together... They come across a raging river... That's when frog turns to scorpion & says, "well... I guess this is where we apart... I can cross this river with little effort but I doubt you can." Then scorpion replies, "I know! You can put me on your back & cross this river"... Frog says, "I can't do that! You'll sting me & we'll both drown & die!" Scorpion says, "Why would I do that? If I sting you, that means I'll die too! I'm not that dumb!" Frog thought about it for a minute & that made sense so he decided to agree to scorpion & puts him on his back, proceeded to cross the river... About half way across, frog starts to feel a burning, painful sensation on his back in which scorpion indeed stung him... As the start to drown, frog turned to scorpion & says, "Why did you sting me? Now we both are gonna die for sure because of your poison, I don't have enough strength to get us out of this!!!" Scorpion, with his last breath replies, "I'm sorry... I felt the strongest eargy sting you... I guess it was just in my nature... I'm sorry!!!" - Anybody can change... A person can't get away from their "nature"...
@Stinto75 (79)
• Sweden
17 Aug 08
No!Ofcourse not!!People CAN change but some ppl choose not to...Don't ever judge a person for what he/she has done in the past.
@fifileigh (3621)
• United States
17 Aug 08
yeah...i think if someone cheats once, they will do it again. it is a disease..insecure...they cant help it...they need attention from others for feed their battered egos...or maybe their current spouse is not giving them want they really need and they r not satisfied...married someone for wrong reason and it is not working out..
• United States
16 Aug 08
I think for the most part that a cheater is always a cheater. Depending on the situation I guess. Like if the person thought you were broken up and they ended up "cheating" then I dont think that history will repeat itself but if there was nothing to make the person think your broken up then yes they will do it time and time again
@jingke (106)
• China
16 Aug 08
Maybe you can not make a cheater honest,but you can make youself intelligent.Do not trust a cheater a second time.